The simple answer is kung ayaw mo magbigay, then don't. The only people bothered by this are those seeking validation. The obvious reason for not giving is that what you have is just enough for you. Either way, it's nobody's business.

Wag mo tularan yung kailangan pa ipagsigawan sa mundo kung bakit ayaw nila magbigay. Kesyo sindikato daw o bigla na lang mag-iinvoke ng dura lex sed lex (bawal daw kasi sa batas) when it's convenient for them, lol. As if the rules prevented them from doing anything illegal in their lives.

On another note, wag natin mamasamain yung mga tumatanggi ng pagkain. Beggars have fucked-up bodies. Yung digestive system nila is bad so anything na deviation sa nakasanayan na nila leads to all sorts of problems. Hindi rin nila kayang nguyain pandesal or most hard food due to their bad teeth.