Look, I'm not where you are. I've been there, and I'm not going to talk down to you about it from the other side. I'm not going to pretend to know just what you're going through, and I'm definitely not going to tell you to just get over it. What you're feeling is real and legitimate. What I can say is that the way that you feel, as real as it is, is not a fixed, permanent thing. You haven't always felt this way, and you won't always feel this way. Everything is temporary.