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[-] EatATaco@lemm.ee 0 points 6 months ago

Don't get me wrong, I don't buy his story for a second, but dear God, your whole post exposes ignorance of how couples work, and reeks of "hes the man of the house and should take control."

I've been with my wife for over 20 years. We don't make sure everything the other does we agree with, and we don't constantly keep tabs on what the other is doing. Claiming that it speaks poorly of him because he doesn't keep some kind of totalitarian eye on his wife is kind of ironic in a comments section of this article.

[-] CoggyMcFee@lemmy.world 5 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

The level of betrayal it would take for my wife to do something like this when I am a Supreme Court justice, knowing the political significance it would have, would be off the charts.

This is not simply be a case of “my wife and I don’t agree on everything and we don’t keep tabs on everything”. This is one of 9 people in the entire country appointed to one of the most powerful positions for life, and who, if they have the slightest bit of integrity and respect for the power entrusted to them, should be striving to show a significant level of nonpartisanship. Yes, this is a sacrifice. It’s the job.

I don’t know how I could possibly remain married to someone who would sell me out like that — make it appear that I was supporting insurrectionists. But we know it wasn’t a betrayal, and that he was showing support for them, and saying his wife did it is a convenient way to signal to the bad people while hand-waving away anybody who calls him out.

[-] Drusas@kbin.run 1 points 6 months ago

Wow, you totally missed my point. Being on the same page and aware of what your partner is doing has nothing to do with taking control. And I didn't say he should be lording over her.

Relationships, when done well, involve a lot of communication. And how would you not notice the flag on your own front door?

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