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does anyone else feel enslaved?
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it's the assumption that dialogue can be won, or it is desirable to win at combat with words, that kind of thing.. they work hard to make the whole thing SEEM like an arena.. that way we come to it with a combative attitude, assuming we won't be understood.,
I can agree with that, if you examine it all it is are people's ego responding to pixels on a device which they own, they expect a self reflection of their own ego hence when online discourse is terrible because we are all bombarded with information with people seeing different information and not understanding where that conclusion came from. It's no surprise that the rate of narcissism has climbed with the rise of the internet as well as increasing polarisation, people aren't self reflecting on why they react the way they do. I know this because over the years I self examined on why I react to what I was exposed to.
we don't give ourselves time to reflect, yeah.. everybody is mentally exhausted from it. constantly listening to someone talk directly into their ears.. doesn't matter what.. you're not allowing your mind to rest and reflect like it needs to.. so everyone is sort of stuck on broadcast at the moment.. immediately announcing their profile characteristics when you meet them.. making sure you know their boundaries..
These days you get accused of trolling for having a discussion, your positions and solutions are assumed to generalised pre-perscribed ideological positions, you are given death threats, harassed and given abuse for deviating from the norm. Honestly the internet could do with being turned off for a month.
If you have to start a statement with "these days" you don't exactly have a strong position.
i'd make you all sit quietly in a corner for a week, if i could
Why? I thought we was having a decent civil conversation.
just my natural inclination, don't take it personally.. see this is the problem..
Explain your rational please
no.. live with it or leave it alone.. i don't answer to you.. it is what it is..
But why put me in a corner particularly?
jesus learn to read and get your head out of your own ass.. i said "all of you".. ALL OF YOU.. EVERYONE.. i would make YOU ALL sit in a corner, asshole. because you all have your heads up your asses..
It's OK dude everything will be ok
one way or another