Well, yesterday a cashier decided it was a good idea to tell me, a hippie looking transwoman, that she's not racist, but what is Turkey doing in European football? And yeah she immediately crossed that threshold and went on my asshole list.

Of course I can come up with a gazillion excuses for why she said that. She doesn't know our own history. She doesn't know geography. She's just trying to fit in to her social group. I can go on and on. But still, what she is saying is damaging on a purely racist basis. She is old enough to realize that.

However, I wouldn't use the word hate. I know what you mean, and that's what I am responding to rn, but I don't genuinely want to hate anyone. Hate is more corrosive to the vessel than that which it is poured upon.