Why western people seldom use "please"? (lemmy.ca)

submitted 4 months ago by kionite231@lemmy.ca to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Hello,

First of all I don't really get the actual meaning of "please". I understand it as it used to make a polite request. However I have rarely seen any westerner saying "please" on either Lemmy, Mastodon or IRC. where I live using "please" (मेहरबानी) is used often.

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[-] Alice@beehaw.org 3 points 4 months ago

It's funny, I was ALWAYS taught to say please growing up, but as an adult I only hear it in more formal settings, or from older folks. I think people realized that tone and body language also show that you're trying to be pleasant and not bossy, and dropped the habit of saying it.

I'm sure it's regional, though, and I'm only speaking for one small chunk of the US.

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