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What is Neurodivergence?
It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc
“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”
So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we're concerned
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1.) ableist language=post or comment will probably get removed (enforced case by case, some comments will be removed and restored due to complex situations). repeated use of ableist language=banned from comm and possibly site depending on severity. properly tagged posts with CW can use them for the purposes of discussing them
2.) always assume good faith when dealing with a fellow nd comrade especially due to lack of social awareness being a common symptom of neurodivergence
2.5) right to disengage is rigidly enforced. violations will get you purged from the comm. see rule 3 for explanation on appeals
3.) no talking over nd comrades about things you haven't personally experienced as a neurotypical chapo, you will be purged. If you're ND it is absolutely fine to give your own perspective if it conflicts with another's, but do so with empathy and the intention to learn about each other, not prove who's experience is valid. Appeal process is like appealing in user union but you dm the nd comrade you talked over with your appeal (so make it a good one) and then dm the mods with screenshot proof that you resolved it. fake screenies will get you banned from the site, we will confirm with the comrade you dm'd.
3.5) everyone has their own lived experiences, and to invalidate them is to post cringe. comments will be removed on a case by case basis depending on determined level of awareness and faith
4.) Interest Policing will not be tolerated in any form. Support your comrades in their joy!
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I've been trying to overcome this and it's almost impossible (for me). I like being silly in private, but couldn't figure it out in public as an adult I think largely due to childhood bullying. Anyway, I started making nature videos where I talk but I'm not on camera. I do weird voices and say a lot of nonsense, but people seem to dig it? I've gotten close to 5k followers just kinda unmasking and being goofy about critters and trees and shit (edit: I meant "shit" as in "stuff" here, but it's funny because I have in fact made a video about bird poop).
I've even put myself in a video a couple of times now that I've been doing it for like 3 months. I even go live and yap at an audience of 50 people or so now. I'm not always intentionally silly (I'm low-key trying to radicalize people), but it's been an interesting way to kind of break down my mask and remember what I used to be like before I was so self conscious
I didnt feel it this strong in the past, I think finishing school and working a "serious" corporate job has really taken its toll.
Yeah, I'm almost 40 and wasn't diagnosed as a kid or anything. So my mask was 30+ years strong and I genuinely have no fucking clue who I am sometimes because of it. All kinds of things I thought I enjoyed were really just me participating in other people's hobbies as a way to blend in or whatever. I was also in the army and that fucked me up real good when it came to acting goofy or whatever. Plus there are a lot of things around gender/masculinity that I was trying to perform properly, but the reality is I'm non-binary and just didn't understand it because of the autism...idk, it's a whole fucking mess and sometimes I really wish I could go back and never figure this out at all.
Corporate jobs insert a boss right into your head somehow. And it never really goes away
That's why Roland Barthes' speech about "killing the cop in your head" is so inspiring.