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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by okasen@slrpnk.net to c/parenting@lemmy.world

My baby is 6 weeks old. I’ve been planning to buy some loop earplugs “soon”. Well she just discovered a kind of cry that reverberates in my amygdala, so “soon” was NOT SOON ENOUGH.

Sigh. I’m gonna buy loops once my partner is awake. Yknow, so I can ask what colour he wants his in…

Eta for context! Loops and ear defenders specifically don’t block all noise, they just reduce the decibels of loud sounds. So using them means you can be more physically present for a baby with colic (and probably other fun ailments that happen later) longer before you need to step away from your nerves being fried. This is especially life-saving for neurodivergent parents, obviously, but I’d bet most parents get stressed and tetchy during certain cries.

Tl;dr still always reply to your baby when they cry! And it’s okay to use tools that make the experience gentler on yourself.

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[-] protist@mander.xyz -1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Ok, but this post doesn't say anything about any of that, it just says "if you're going to have a baby, buy earplugs." Most infants don't have colic and don't cry for no reason.

Source: Have had baby

[-] MajorHavoc@programming.dev 9 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Most babies don't almost choke on their own snot too, but it's too late to buy a snot sucker in the moment. Same with earplugs. They're a few bucks each. I advise new parents to buy both and shove them in a drawer somewhere.

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