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[-] frankfurt_schoolgirl@hexbear.net 24 points 3 months ago

How is this not a huge compliment? Dating men is literally the worst cause they are like this.

[-] RION@hexbear.net 57 points 3 months ago

It's very easy to read as "I don't find you super attractive but you seem like someone I could settle for once I'm done playing the field"

Her intent seems to be more "I don't think I could have hooked up with you and moved on because of how special you are to me" but she phrased it in an ambiguous way

[-] TheDoctor@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

The first interpretation is extremely foreign to me. Do people just marry someone who they don’t like that much because they wanna settle down?

[-] sinstrium@hexbear.net 26 points 3 months ago

Yes thats most of the hetero marriages/long-term relationships. They simply grab the next person who "is there". There is like a lot of silent expectations in hetero social circles to have an active relationship. I notice this everytime people do not know that I am gay yet hahaha.

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