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[-] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 40 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Are you really not seeing the issue? This could easily be interpreted as "I don't find you physically attractive", even if it wasn't intended. Who in the world wants to hear that from their partner? It also could easily be interpreted as negging. Are people not allowed to feel aggrieved by that?

[-] nocturnedragonite@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 3 months ago

No, I am not seeing that cause she didn't say it nor imply it lmao so I don't see how you are? "Easily interpreted" is wild.

[-] Egon@hexbear.net 22 points 3 months ago

You're the one who is adding additional phrasings to the text in order to make your interpretation clearer. Maybe re read it

[-] nocturnedragonite@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 3 months ago

LMAO telling me to reread something when you're saying she said things she didn't is some crazy work

[-] Egon@hexbear.net 14 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

The only one who is saying she "literally said" something that is not in the text is you. I have made it very clear what is my interpretation and what is text in this thread.
Be better

[-] nocturnedragonite@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 3 months ago

And I think your interpretation is incorrect? Be better.

[-] Egon@hexbear.net 21 points 3 months ago

Funny that, it can't be incorrect since it's a completely valid interpretation from the text we have available. There is no correct interpretation, which is why this thread is an active discussion of how people understand it.

[-] Azzu@lemm.ee 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

If someone said to you "you're not someone I'd like to hook up with", would that be more of a compliment or an insult to you?

[-] nocturnedragonite@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 3 months ago

Do you stop having sex when you get married or..?

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