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Im mad i missed the men bad struggle sesh
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People really shouldn't be at all surprised that cis men have an absurd amount of hang-ups about how they want to be desired and how being desired or not-desired affects their self-worth. It's really not that crazy to want to be desired both in a seemingly shallow immediate sexual manner and in a deep emotional one.
Is it really just cis men? No queer people would feel insulted if their partner implied they had no other desirable qualities besides being “a good person”?
Come on now. Neither did I even write anything about queer people (which I wouldn't do since I'm not queer) nor did what I write in any way imply that this might be exclusive to cis men or cis people in general.
Now really come on, you couldn't even really call that a bad-faith interpretation of the original post, that's just making up words that literally weren't even said and putting them in quotes.
I didn’t make up any words lol. I was asking a question because I don’t know if OP’s experiences were any different. Chill out. And the quotes were my own because “a good person” means a million things to a million people, but it was referencing the reddit post which implies their boyfriend was simply “a good person” and nothing else.