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submitted 3 months ago by Stopthatgirl7@lemmy.world to c/news@lemmy.world

Van de Velde was booed and jeered while competing at the Games. Dutch Olympic officials went to lengths to protect him from the press during the event.

He has now opened up to Dutch publication NOS about his experience, admitting that while he anticipated backlash, the intensity of it took him by surprise. "I definitely had a moment of breaking down, both before the tournament and during it. But I thought 'I'm not going to give others the power to bully me away or get me away'.

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[-] fine_sandy_bottom@lemmy.federate.cc 14 points 3 months ago

I get the impression that many lemmy users don't have a lot of life experience. Everyone deals in absolutes and ideals, no one seems to see the nuance.

The question of "should this guy be allowed to compete" is a complex one, and anyone who thinks there's an easy answer is an idiot.

[-] snail_hunter@programming.dev 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

"Everyone deals in absolutes" sure sounds a lot like an absolute. It's easier to fall into using absolutes in short form, instantaneous internet comments.

No, that's a generalisation.

[-] njm1314@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

It's the exact opposite of a complex question. People who rape children shouldn't be allowed to represent their nation at the Olympics. That's a hard line in the sand that normal people are perfectly fine with. It's amazingly reasonable. No one who rapes a child gets rewarded with honor and respect. If they serve an appropriate punishment and show remorse, two things he never did, you can return to life. You should not however be honored on the national and even worldwide stage that is a privilege that should be lost forever. Don't like it? Don't rape kids. Not a lot of nuance needed.

This is exactly the kind of perspective I'm talking about. Well done.

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