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Where do you even meet people anymore?
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Depending on where you are, local clubs probably abound. Anything outdoors is going to be a good start, because they have a vested interest in you coming back to the club to keep it going. All clubs will, but outdoors ones will not want to add any difficulties that might drive off the next generation in their club.
Hiking, running, rowing, biking, skydiving*, geocaching, gardening, birdwatching, fishing (rare, but they're there!), sailing* (used windsurfers and small sailboats can be less than $1k; not great, but an option), motorcycles*, monowheels, fixer cars, mountain biking, sports (ultimate frisbee, pickleball, soccer, outdoor volleyball, basketball, baseball; all will probably have young adults in organized ways), dancing [don't discount this one! Especially if you can find a swing club nearby, you will have tons of fun], mud runs, rock climbing*, bodybuilding...
Man, I can't even think of all the clubs/hobbies I've briefly talked to people about. You can definitely find something out there that you'll enjoy, but you may have to try a loooot. Don't give up hope.
*these are probably a bigger investment or money sink than the others, either requiring gear, a significant training period, or ongoing costs for travel/maintenance
In OPs case, I'd recommend groups that kind of cater to outcasts. I met most of my current friends through joining the local atheist group. Atheism, Satanism, humanism, whatever flavor suits best will probably have some furry friendly people at least. And then there's usually kink groups and polyamory groups (even if you're not poly just say you're wanting to meet new people and you'll be in a D&D campaign within an hour or so).