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And then they don't stop after I say "I get it" a few times. 💀 (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

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[-] yuri@pawb.social 17 points 1 month ago

my nd friend group has a protocol for this! if you think you already understand what the other person is saying, you just say “avocado”. then they either ask some questions to confirm or just say “ok but i wanna info dump anyways” and then it’s COLLABORATIVE info dumping!

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 month ago

That's pretty cool but requires a tight group of cognizant NDs.

[-] yuri@pawb.social 13 points 1 month ago

i gotta lotta unconditional love for my homies lol

[-] Nyxon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Congrats, I too have a solid group of ND friends all exploring their condition and we have similar mechanism to acknowledge communication issues and trying to make them more palatable for the group in an honest, fair and kind way that brings us all up and doesn’t shut us down. I am incredibly lucky and I love my bros unconditionally too.

Happy to hear you have a community like that too.