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dear introverts, what can I answer to a needy and clingy coworker who believes not talking means something's wrong (with me), so he leaves me alone? (programming.dev)

submitted 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) by dennis5wheel@programming.dev to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I go to work to work because I need a paycheck, not to make friends.

Where I am there is a new coworker that to me acts needy (think of Slow Horses's Struan Loy), tries befriending me, but he invariably asks if everything's ok. I don't care about this person's life.

The first 2 times I didn't think anything of it, but he asks that every day and it's becoming tiring.

I feel mobbed and stalked, mobbed because he keeps insinuating there is something wrong with me just because I don't ask him about his private life and do my job, and stalked, because he is so fixated on me.

going to HR over this seems ridiculous, but I'm starting to hate his voice.

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[-] filtoid@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

A Choose your own ~~Adventure~~ Rejection

Edit: didn't remember strikethrough formatting correctly

this post was submitted on 30 Oct 2024

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