I mean, fair enough. If you don't like grind then Subnautica isn't going to be for you. A lot of these grindy games I use as podcast games - I listen to stuff while I'm doing the boring bits, then when shit gets real I pause the sound to focus.

Again, you can get past some of the grind, but if you don't enjoy the process to get to that point it's maybe not worth it. Even once the worst grind is gone... I mean there's still grind. The actual story is pretty fascinating, it's all about conservation and responsible stewardship and working with the ecosystem and not against it. Oh and also you're virtually a slave in a hypercapitalist company town structure.

Anyway, I think Spiritfarer is very bittersweet, although I would consider myself very at peace with the concept of death, so I understand others may feel differently. If you're a big crier it will definitely do that for you. A big theme is letting people go when it's their time. I played it on a week when I was particularly sick and didn't have the energy to do something more active, and it was the perfect thing for that time for me. I personally think it's very wholesome and healing in many ways. The ambience is very soothing, you spend time tending your gardens on the ship and keeping everybody happy whilst you travel. One of the things they sometimes need is hugs. It never feels like a grind imho, but again I'm happy with minecrafty/subnautica type games. I have to admit I haven't finished it, it was very much an experience limited to that time I was sick, which is weird. I'll have to try it again.