Use small instances. I've never had trouble on lemdro.id.
How do I even find other instances? Not trying to sound like a turd, I just legitimately haven't looked into it at all yet
You could use lemmyverse.net to look what instances and communities there are
I think it usually just involves look around the comment sections. People are like "I'm on this instance, it's good blah blah blah."
In my case though I chose lemdro.id because it's an instance that centers around a topic I'm interested in.
If lemmy.ml is accepting signups I heartily recommend it.
This is the way.
Don't join big instances. There should be no main instance. Join small instances. Spread the load
That's what she said
Or make your own
Use small instances. I've never had trouble on lemdro.id.
How do I even find other instances? Not trying to sound like a turd, I just legitimately haven't looked into it at all yet
You could use lemmyverse.net to look what instances and communities there are
I think it usually just involves look around the comment sections. People are like "I'm on this instance, it's good blah blah blah."
In my case though I chose lemdro.id because it's an instance that centers around a topic I'm interested in.
If lemmy.ml is accepting signups I heartily recommend it.
This is the way.
Don't join big instances. There should be no main instance. Join small instances. Spread the load
That's what she said
Or make your own