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That's very uncalled for
so you suddenly have a problem with someone swearing and being hateful?
The idea is to have freedom of expression AND to exercise it intelligently. It isn't an either-or. Or it shouldn't be.
Sure. thats not what OP is saying in their post though
It's implied. Nobody wants assholes.
just swearing at someone isn’t expressing it intelligently though
Sometimes it is. It depends.
Most of the people that I've met who habitually reach for "fuck you", frame it as a question or an argument. Which is arguably worse. And somewhat common. Well, common in the conversations that I like to have.
See, now you are saying "fuck you", and framing it all snarky, "You’ll sure show us, won’t you!". That's actually worse than "fuck you".
I think that the problem might actually be bullshit. There's a ton of "fuck you" going around but it's disguised, so it can't be rationally addressed, but we still feel it, the awfulness, so to escape the awfulness we subconsciously slide into these safe conversations, where conflict and the invisible yet toxic fallout don't exist. But the safe conversations are not very satisfying.
You are saying "fuck you" like 3 times there. I can see how you might feel cynical.
Yes, because I didn't insulted you or said anything offensive towards ANYONE here. You missed the point completely
Then clarify your point. All you have done is post about how you can’t swear at someone or be hateful towards them. And immediately proved the point why it’s not considered acceptable but somehow you’re missing the irony
Thought you didn’t care?
If my experiences have taught me anything, it's that the act of caring is gradient. Sometimes it's for the sake of onlookers that it occurs. I don't strictly encourage insults, but the real enemy so-to-speak is escalation.
I literally said there's a difference in my post between pure nasty accusations or racist and justified anger. You came here with a provocation that's completely senseless.
It’s very interesting how you are instantly wanting nuance and understanding when you are on the receiving end. Do you really not see the hypocrisy here?