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I feel like past a certain age everyone doesn't like growing older. For me I have that same feeling plus the added pressure that every year I go from being an X year old virgin to an X+1 one year old virgin. I'm about to finish collage and go into the work field which given my internship I can already tell I won't have much of a chance at meeting new people even less girls.

Everytime I find someone and start getting along with them really well. I think to my self this will finally be the year which I stop being a virgin. But it just has not worked out. Of course I dont go into a relationship with the sole goal of losing my V-card but it is something that crosses my mind.

I am 24 year old and I am still a virgin.

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[-] dingus@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I'm 30, a virgin, and don't anticipate that it will change any time soon. It's not as if there is a big sign over my head saying that. People aren't going to know unless you tell them. And I don't see anyone permanently changing in a noticeable way over sex unless it was a case of something like abuse. So I don't think it's that big of a deal, even though it's a bit more on the unusual side of things.

Is sex with someone else something you want? Or do you not really care? Both are indifferent.

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