But what I’m trying to point out is that this one person does not have authority over anyone due to the nature of the fediverse. If they did, your post right here would be gone.

Saying they don't have authority because fediverse is a very disingenuous thing to say, they do indeed have some amount of authority because they run and control servers. Everyone who runs a server does and they have the capability to limit reach. Being able to start your own community doesn't mean that others don't have authority. The biggest servers have the most authority, if Lemmy.world and Lemmy.ml wanted to both silence someone their post history would be wiped off the two largest servers entirely, and completely from all the communities they own, even in servers they don't, as much as you insist it isn't the case there absolutely is authority in the Fediverse.

If there wasn't really, hijacking, comandeering, and then kicking people out of their own admin servers would be fair game. It isn't though and is highly frowned upon, because they have authority over those servers and the slice of the pie, and that means they can silence you. Don't try and delude people into thinking that isn't possible, when it absolutely is and is kind of the reason why federation works the way it does. Since historically uncontrollable spaces were a bad idea that attract criminals and bad faith actors.

So I'm not saying it shouldn't be the way it is, but I am saying it is disingenuous to frame the Fediverse like it is Nostr, because that's not what it's like and we don't want to attract or welcome people who think it is.

Yeah, but I don't think authority needs to be inescapable in order to be authority.

If I don't like the laws of the state of Ohio, I can leave Ohio. That doesn't mean the cops in Ohio have no authority.

In this case, it's actually even a little bit sillier than that, because we're just talking about words. There's no way to even do any actions. All you can do is say stuff. If people come in and start talking about things, and that's so destructive to your way of being that you have to wield your authority within that particular domain to eject them from it and stop them from saying those things, what's that say about your ability to work things out without a hierarchy and get along? How are you going to deal with it in your anarchist community if someone's playing music too late at night and keeping someone else awake, or saying things at meetings that you don't think they should be allowed to say? Or even doing something even more destructive, letting their dog loose and it might hurt somebody, something like that? If someone has to default back to putting one person in charge and having them wield ultimate power to keep things in line this early in the process, it doesn't sound to me like they're very serious about anarchism.

I'm not trying to be negative or sarcastic about anarchism. I think, on the whole, it's great. I talked more about it and learned some down in the deep forest of comments. I'm just saying that it sounds to me like !anarchism@slrpnk.net could use a lot more anarchism in its governance.