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This type of "now this friendship is in focus, now it's not" time-blindness is really common with ADHD folks.

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[-] AVincentInSpace@pawb.social 13 points 1 day ago

when god programmed ADHD brains he forgot to merge the friendship degradation mechanic from the mainline branch and i'm really glad He did

[-] Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee 4 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

I've never understood recency bias in friendship. If we're friends, what does it matter how long its been? Why does a relationship degrade simply because time has elapsed? Is your brain so fickle? Is there no expectation of continuity? Loyalty? Does a treasured item that's been put in a drawer for a time lose its innate value?

In this regard, I prefer my brain to whatever the hell normative is; I don't require constant or regular affirmation to remain steadfast in my beliefs.

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