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What are some Must Know tips for dating?
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this post was submitted on 13 Nov 2024
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Shut the fuck up about the woes with your ex. You're meant to move on and seek new people. Your ex should be old news, out of sight and out of mind. No new potential date should have to hear you crying about your bad marriage, about how things were once good between you and the other person. Because that's you not letting go, regardless of what you've been through.
And if you keep droning on about your past relationships, you are chopping down what interest there is between you and the new person. That's why you don't get anyone new.