Are you talking about visual novels?

I can read Japanese, so I can check the Japanese version and see what age they used there. Just one example is fine.

I know that there is lolicon in Japan, but this doesn't get released in the west, nor is it intended for a western audience.

I'm talking about a game published with western audience in mind, that has a scene involving a minor that you consider to be worse than an implicit sex scene with a bear.

The games that tend to get criticism are games like the dead or alive xtreme volleyball series. Do you think those games deserve the criticism they get while bg3 doesn't?