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Anon tries to understand his coworker
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this post was submitted on 16 Nov 2024
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I don't get why anon believes he is being used. It was a miscommunication, sure. Did he spend money on her before this? Using him as a ride to go on a hike? Hikes being extremely cheap and only needing to pay parking, usually.
Yeah, no harm done, but she'd been leading him on for weeks. That'd make me pissed too.
Or she genuinely wanted a friend and anon is so attention starved he can't see the difference.
I wouldn't want to go back to that awkward situation either.
Oh, come on. Weeks of talking and flirting (coworkers agreed) and she never mentioned a boyfriend. To be painfully clear, this isn't a gender thing and anyone can lead someone else on to stroke their own ego. And that's what this is (if it happened).
Why not? I'd return, apologize for the misunderstanding, and then laugh about it. Maybe bring a small gift, like cookies or something to share, and make it clear that you're looking for friendship.
But completely bailing is kind of weird IMO, which tells me there's more to the story.