I don't claim it is all, but kids are incredible manipulators. And then you get the parents that are oppositional to information that doesn't fit their view of their child. The kids see that parent backs them up, no matter what and so next week is same behavior problems. And the one school administration did not want to report behaviours to parents. I assume it then has to be logged and scored somewhere against a rating.

But yes it is the parents job, I totally agree. My kids are doing behavior work /parenting work at school which kills teaching lessons