[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 7 points 2 days ago

It would be a clever move from Paradox if they're actually not stopping the development now that EA is cancelling The Sims 5.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 9 points 2 days ago

Ghosting someone (multiple really) when I just couldn't handle all the things they expect me to do. It's childish and very much my own mistake for not being clear with my boundary and overestimating my mental energy.

Slowly making it up one person to the next.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 4 points 2 days ago

You just gotta prepare something for their birthday next year. No need for something big, just thoughtful. Add a sincere apology or two and I'm sure they will appreciate it.

I also tend to forget someone's birthday other than my partner and immediate family so I just put them in my calendar. No more accidentally forget about friends' birthday, unless I'm really busy and my ADHD acting up.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 3 points 3 days ago

Can I be your friend?

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 5 points 5 days ago

I'm very interested, would like to have family dinner tradition too when/if I start a family. I just don't have any idea how to start. Can you tell me more how does the routine go? Like, who is responsible for what? Do you cook/buy dinner? What are the do's and don'ts while having dinner? How to enforce it while making sure everyone enjoy this routine? What kind of obligations are okay as an excuse to not participate?

I know it's too many questions, just the gist of it is fine.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 10 points 5 days ago

I guess you're kind enough to do that.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Wait, I don't get it. The alternative that the guy propose sounds like a win-win though? What if one of them likes vacuuming twice a week and the other once every month? What's the right way to divide it fairly?

(I'm a woman who vacuum as needed.)

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 16 points 3 weeks ago

As a leecher with atrocious upload speed. Thank you so much for your service.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

If Elsevier and the other major academic publishers are the cables in this metaphor, what is the closest equivalent to early-Netflix?

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 13 points 1 month ago

This is the most comprehensive strategy that I can vouch for.

Done all of them.

I would say, the last one is underrated but very much useful not just for getting over a crush but for personal growth in general, which is a lifetime skill.

You'd be surprised by how many adults don't understand themselves or even avoid doing self-reflection. In consequences, stumble upon the same problem again and again without taking different/better approach to handle them.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 14 points 2 months ago

Yes, because I need Adobe to do my meh wage part-time job in developing country from my one and only working laptop and I don't have the luxury of surplus money, time, and mental energy to do anything about it.

But I get your point. If I have the means, I will fix my broken Thinkpad and definitely install Linux there the first chance I get. Either that or Adobe finally release Linux version, which will probably be released after Half-Life 3.

I can't wait to try Endeavor (so I can finally be an obnoxious person who say "I used Arch^-based^ ^distro^, btw")

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 26 points 2 months ago

I realized I need to touch grass because I thought they are talking about moderation as in online space moderator, and the replier is trying to be as edgy as possible to show why we need moderators.

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