Hi there, I am creator of clubsall. We absolutely do care about community.
There were many discussion few months ago. There were also private discussions with some admins. Because we are not lemmy based, so our development takes time (plus my developer left, plus we were trying to move to sublinks which itself has federation issues). So federation for us is not a config setting. Also, we are a very niche site with almost no traffic.
Additionally, different admins feel different rules are fair, so it is hard for us to know how to be good community members. I request a common set of rules, preferably based on traffic, so any newbie can get the breathing room to develop and participate. Does that sound fair?
We fixed the attribution. Now usernames show up as /u/@ (rather than earlier /u/ and no server). Also the server name can be seen in the right bar. Let me know if this fixes the main issue you had.
Also for a deadline of federation will you be ok if I commit to doing it before we have 100 active users a month? (since our comments are federated out, it is easy to see how many active users we have. I can also report whenever someone asks).