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They would consider you whichever one allows them to hurt you in the moment. It's not an honest belief, they just want to be cruel to people.
Eww, thanks for telling me. That’s truly something…
I recall having a conversation with a transphobe and it coming down to me going, 'I just don't understand why you want to be cruel to trans people.' He tried to brush it off but it was obvious that he was simply trying to dress up his bigotry with pseudointellectual bs.
That, and the tried and true, "I'm just concerned about women in women's spaces. Post transition women commit the same number of crimes as men."
Where did you read this? Can you show me what crimes they commit? Who did the study?
"Oh I can't remember this now, can't we have a debate about this."
That's when I realised that this was pointless. Because, for him, this was just a game. That the rights of trans people were something we could "intellectually" parse out. All while actual, real world people are being harassed, discriminated against and killed.
Fuck that shit. And fuck that guy.
trans men dont exist to maga. youd be labeled a woman and thats that.
Once they've figured out they're a trans man. Most transphobes don't even know trans men exist.
I really don’t get why they are so obsessed with trans women
Because they are disgusted by the idea that they might get too far into raping someone before realizing the victim has a penis.
Fascism requires "out groups" to hate, persecute, and eventually exterminate. As a convenient scapegoat for gaining favor among the evangelical southern baptist christian voting blocs, trans people have the dubious honor of being selected among the first few targets. It's nothing personal. It's just fascism.
Because opting out of masculinity is a deep and fundamental insult to their entire world view, and being trans is kind of damaging to their whole essentialist ethos.
Because they hate women and wish to oppress them wherever and whenever possible.
Because apparently all of them have an inherent urge to sexually assault others, and they think it isn't fair that someone like them can dress as a woman to assault people in the women's bathroom.
Most of them are misogyny focuses transphobia
The MAGA types I know would probably consider you a lesbian playing dress up.
That makes sense. How sick of MAGA to be this dehumanizing. Why do they think America will be great from this?
I think MAGA thinks you're not part of the human species to begin with.
Agreed.
Everyone is going on about how maga is inherently anti trans but the situation is more nuanced
If you’re terminally online then yes, maga is 100% anti trans all the time but irl that is not always the case
I provide gender affirming care and work with families where someone is trans and their families are MAGA people, respect pronouns and names, give rides home from surgery, call partners boyfriend/girlfriend as appropriate, and will even at times get mad at others for not respecting their child’s identity
This is not a super common thing, to be clear, but it’s also not shockingly rare. Maybe 20-25% of my clients? It also gets into the whole “humanizing” factor. These people are so insulated from minority groups thanks to continued segregation that they can easily demonize them but lgbt minorities can pop up in their families much easier. That’s why they fucking hate acceptance movements; you can’t white flight from your queer kid but you can bully them into a loveless marriage that ends in divorce or suicide. But when they finally do integrate they generally recognize that while there are aspects of a culture they still despise the people within it are still just people, especially if those people are the people they’ve known and loved their whole life
It’s cognitive dissonance at its finest though and creates tons of friction. Client is obviously very upset that family is voting to end their rights and family usually does mental gymnastics to not see it that way. Also majority of instances, overwhelmingly so, are trans men. This is all based on my anecdote so take it with a grain of salt but imo trans women are most often used for propaganda and portrayed as monsters so trans men sometimes fly under the radar via erasure. though to be absolutely clear key word is sometimes, trans men absolutely get a ton of shit flung at them too. This probably plays into the fact that trans women outnumber trans men by a significant margin and more importantly/likely systems of misogyny, people hate women.
That said I would generally assume the worst, especially if you encounter a group of Trump people, or if you are in a place where you are doing discourse online
Interesting ! Maybe I’ll meet some good MAGA 😊
Well they’re not good, they’re still enabling the government to remove your rights and the rights of others plus they tend to have a lot of other hot takes and behavior that are objectively shitty.
Speaking broadly they seem to be people that are bigoted and reassess their bigotry when it becomes humanized. They only changed this opinion because it impacts someone they care about directly, basically. In some cases they still hold the shitty opinion and view their loved one as the exception (the “real trans” vs “fake trans” thing)
The other piece that can be a real mindfuck is that they can often go to a “we just don’t talk about it” thing, where they do silently think the absolute worst of you but at least aren’t assholes about it. This is at least not detrimental to you directly but can lead to ugly behavior and systemic oppression
Approach with caution, basically, and don’t be shocked if someone who initially seems very sweet and courteous says some utterly disgusting shit if the conversation turns ugly if you bring up “sensitive topics”
MAGA can hold multiple conflicting viewpoints at once. There is no logic to them, they will just go with whatever is useful for causing harm. MAGA is made up of the losers who bullied everyone in middle school and never grew up.
Alright, I'm curious - why do you care what some crazy backwards rednecks in another country think about you?
Referring to you as a lesbian would play into the idea that you're a woman, so they'd say you're straight.
But then they'd have to acknowledge that he is indeed a man. Trans masc means that he is born as a woman and transitioned to be a man.
So, in iran you would be acceptable, this is a real thing there, because trans people are covered by state healthcare but homosexuality has a death penalty. The bigotry is about religious contrivance, so there is fiddling and rules lawyeringvyo be done.
But they're islamic fundamentalists. The american regime are libidinal troll fascists raised on 4chan who don't believe in anything, so if you don't beat her and keep her pregnant, you're headed to the camps.
they don't care about your relationship ; they hate you as a person.
similarly the american left, hates you if persive a difference between biological men and biological women.
It's just one of the giant messes in the country.
still better tgan a lot if other countries tho ; Afghanistan, Russia, N. Korea, Myanmar, Congo, the list goes on.
That is fair
It's hard to say, I live in deep red Texas and I'm openly gay and have been for decades. The only times that I have experienced homophobia in this state has come from liberals when they learned that socialist and communist do not support their party. I've never had a Republican have any issue with me, my husband or our relationship.
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