you can request some in the replies too and i can find some!! please also let me know if there is more that you know of to add!!
from what i can find and only some:
mandarin - fasheng.ing
portuguese - lemmy.eco.br
lemmy.teuto.icu
forum.ayom.media
lemmy.pt
lemmy.plaureano.nohost.me
spanish - mujico.org
feddit.cl
chachara.club
russian - rekabu.ru
shibanu.app
japanese - lm.korako.me
philosophy.cafe
fenmou.cyou
lem.ph3j.com
polish - szmer.info
fedit.pl
tech.pr0n.pl
lemmy.sieprawski.pl
german -
stammtisch.hallertau.social
rollenspiel.forum
lemmy.fedifriends.social
feddit.org
lemmy.klein.ruhr
zonenranslite.de
lemmy.hogru.ch
linz.city
french - social.ggbox.fr
jlai.lu
links.gayfr.online
kourjetez.bzh?
lemmy.coupou.fr
danish - feddit.dk
slangenettet.pyjam.as
swedish - aggregatet.org
feddit.nu
lemmy.ahall.se
italian - feddit.it
l.posterdati.it
diggita.com
lemmy.casasnow.noho.st