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https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/lgbtq_plus_christianity

this is probably gonna be controversial, but i mean this for people who actually follow christ's teachings and not to be a cesspool of homophobia and transphobia.

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[-] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

talk about getting screwed over from both sides.

best of luck to you and your comm!

[-] RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

thanks so much!!

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 1 points 1 week ago
[-] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Likely depends on whether you ask the church or Jesus. We don't really have any reliable information, but if he really was a hippie preacher, telling how god loves all of his creatures, and how you can't hate on each other... He must have been pro Lgbtq+

But that's just my take on it. Most people who call themselves Christians might disagree.

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I think that is a stretch. He appointed Paul who clearly wrote against practicing homosexuality. (Romans 1:27, 1 Corinthians 6:9) He was anti divorce (Mark 10:9) and adultery as well, telling a woman caught in it to "go and sin no more" (John 8:11). Not "Live your truth" or "Love who you love". Jesus gave us the Church. Now, would Jesus want us to bully those who practice homosexuality? By no means! We should still as Christians treat them with love. But between them and God, repentance is needed. But that's between them and God. So the likes of Steven Anderson is wrong. (In fact, I don't think Steven Anderson is even saved). And as well, this is a commandment for Christians. We have no business trying to enforce this on non-Christians.

Anyway, Jesus would probably be hated by the left today (and the right, but I don't think that needs explaining). He spoke a lot about judgement and hell and condemnation. If anything, the left and right might unite to crucify Him these days.

People in the past said "My ideology is good and Jesus was good so Jesus must be on my side" such as the Nazis and the slaveowners. It's dangerous logic.

[-] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Uh, that's mainly your opinion. I'm pretty sure both passages you gave remain contested. It's likely about male pederasty or prostitution while sex between men in general might be completely fine. And we know for example what Paul's role was, and that was to do politics, not quote Jesus verbatim. So you have to look at the context. That part in Romans is mainly a summary of Hellenistic Jewish legalism, not anything new, not even really about Jesus. It's the customs of the jewish people.

Corinthans again doesn't condemn homosexuality, but you need to read several paragraphs on ancient greek and history to even understand what the word even means. It's not as easy as "homosexuality" to which it has been wrongfully translated.

I don't see a strong argument why male homosexuality should be wrong. Most other passages also talk about it in the context of violence or abuse. And we can all agree that's wrong. But a loving homosexual relationship is a different thing. And then someone still needs to quote some bible verses to me regarding lesbians, trans-people, ... They're obviously accepted and loved by the Christian community, are they?

Jesus taught us not to accept man-made bullshit like right-wing politics or hate. He's figuratively come to earth to oppose conservatism. He taught us to use our own brains instead and try love and understanding towards other creatures. And have respect before God's creation. Which includes a variety of sexual preference and identity. Especially being the underdog and caring for the weak people is what he did and central to leftist-liberal ideology. And opposed by the right.

And I think if your objective were to be to follow the footsteps of Jesus, you'd have dinner with the adulterers, go visit the prostitutes and embrace them, let them wash and perfume your feet. And have everyone give money to the poor. Not do anything else, especially not shit on them. Because that's what he did.

And he wasn't super fond of the Church either. I mean he went there and yelled at people for what they did to his father's place. Opposed the clerics....

So how does that suddenly translate into nazis, slaveowners etc? That's clearly wrong by his teachings. On the contrary, he came to abolish exactly these kinds of things.

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Corinthians uses the word Arsenokoitai. It is also found in 1 Timothy 1:10 and in the Septuagint translation of Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13.

It is a compound word, formed from "arsen" (male) and "koitēs" (bed), so essentially meaning "men who bed with other men". Biblical scholars who translate the Bible and know ancient greek always seem to translate it to be people who practice homosexuality or anal sexual intercourse. Basically every reputable translation of the Bible translates it along those lines, and the Church has held that interpretation universally throughout the majority of it's history with no dispute. People are only starting to try and reinterpret it in the wake of the pride movement- which is Eisegesis, not Exegesis, and completely dishonest.

There is no evidence in the text anywhere that it could be indicating paedastry

Now, as for a loving relationship versus the violence or abuse argument, what Paul writes in Romans basically debunks that theory completely:

Romans 1:26-27 NRSV

For this reason God gave them up to degrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received in their own persons the due penalty for their error.

were consumed with passion for one another

Indicates a consensual relationship involving a passion. In no place here is violence indicated. In fact, quite the opposite.

Trying to claim that Jesus fits in any secular political viewpoint (leftism, conservatism) is a very shallow view and completely incorrect.

And I think if your objective were to be to follow the footsteps of Jesus, you'd have dinner with the adulterers, go visit the prostitutes and embrace them, let them wash and perfume your feet. And have everyone give money to the poor. Not do anything else, especially not shit on them. Because that's what he did.

And I think here, you're absolutely right. Although by "embrace" them, not to necessarily affirm what they're doing, but to show them love in their sinful state. Christ didn't come to save the just (which none of us are) but the unjust.

And he wasn't super fond of the Church either. I mean he went there and yelled at people for what they did to his father's place. Opposed the clerics....

Namely the Pharisees who were more concerned about the law than the Gospel.

So how does that suddenly translate into nazis, slaveowners etc? That's clearly wrong by his teachings. On the contrary, he came to abolish exactly these kinds of things.

By reinterpreting the Bible in your own way, and letting your worldly passions fit your interpretation (Eisegesis) instead of letting the Bible shape you and your viewpoint (Exegesis)

One thing I learned was simple. If I have a problem with something the Bible says, if it doesn't fit my worldview, then I'm the one with the problem and needs to be fixed. Not the Bible. As a human, I can be wrong, and need to be corrected by scripture. And I should do the best I can to follow what I am commanded to in Scripture.

Essentially, if I disagree with the Bible, then I'm the one who's wrong. Not the Bible.

[-] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

[...] Arsenokoitai

Yeah, I read some 3 page essay on how that word was used. I know "every reputable translation of the Bible translates it along those lines" but that doesn't make it correct to translate it to a different word in and view it from a different perspective / a different context 2000 years later. I think it's ambiguous at best. And skipping the 3 pages and making it about todays homosexuals is an oversimplicifaction and simply wrong.

[...] Eisegesis, not Exegesis

I'm not that educated on church doctrine, but do we even have access to exegesis? I mean sure technically the scripture is the meaning by definition. But isn't what Paul writes already something like eisegesis? I mean he's a human and he interpreted and spread the teachings for us.

no evidence in the text anywhere that it could be indicating pederasty

Well, I think pederasty is very wrong. If that part of the Bible fails to recognize or even mention that, I condemn the scripture for that.

Romans 1:26-27

Again, that's Paul's summary of Hellenistic legalism. That's the entire context of that part of Romans.

Trying to claim that Jesus fits in any secular political viewpoint (leftism, conservatism) is a very shallow view and completely incorrect.

I know. The entire left/right spectrum is completely incorrect. But I gave some examples of what kind of person Jesus was and if he advocated for the people and the weak, or for the strong ones and the establishment. He happens to have quite some overlap there with core leftist ideology.

you'd have dinner with the adulterers [...]

And I think here, you're absolutely right. Although [...]

There is no "although". He clearly left out picking on their "sinful state" the way the other people did. He went there and all he had was love. It's not super straightforward but I'm pretty sure we can skip lecturing them on those kinds of "sins".

By reinterpreting the Bible in your own way [...] Essentially, if I disagree with the Bible, then I'm the one who's wrong. Not the Bible.

Yeah I mean good luck with that. It's full of contradictions, stuff that was written after Jesus. You need to believe the earth is 6000 years old and rectancular with angels in the four corners playing the trumpet on doomsday. (Which should have happened a long time ago, but it didn't.) And you can't even tell whether it's okay to eat Shrimp or a cheeseburger unless you do Eisegesis. Slavery and a lot of things we view as wrong today aren't technically outlawed by the Bible and it really depends on what part of it you refer to when judging. Then we have weird parts especially in the old scripture like you can't go to church if you're missing a testicle or you're asian. And I'm pretty sure all the raining frogs and so on is made up and not meant to be taken literally.

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 1 points 1 week ago

But isn't what Paul writes already something like eisegesis? I mean he's a human and he interpreted and spread the teachings for us.

By the appointment of Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit

I condemn the scripture for that.

You aren't in any position to condemn the inspired word of God

There is no "although"

The "although" I placed there was because I wanted to make sure that you didn't show Jesus as claiming that sin isn't sin, and I was agreeing to a misunderstanding of what you were saying.

Yeah I mean good luck with that. It's full of contradictions, stuff that was written after Jesus. You need to believe the earth is 6000 years old and rectancular

The Bible doesn't say that.

And you can't even tell whether it's okay to eat Shrimp or a cheeseburger unless you do Eisegesis.

It's not as Eisegesis, it's covenant theology. The Council of Jerusalem in Acts 15 also highlights this, as does Paul in several of his epistles. It's why we don't circumcise men anymore.

Slavery and a lot of things we view as wrong today aren't outlawed by the Bible and it really depends on what part of it you refer to when judging.

Chattel Slavery that existed in 1700-1800s America wasn't happening in that society.

And I'm pretty sure all the raining frogs and so on is made up and not meant to be taken literally.

Are you talking about the plagues of Moses? If that's the case, then what do you propose happened?

You are drawing a huge and dangerous brush over here. The Bible is a compilation of 66 divinely inspired books. Some are poetry and some are prophecy, like the imagery in Isaiah, Daniel, Ezekiel, Revelation, etc. It is obvious then that stuff like that is up for interpretation. But then when you get to Paul's epistles which are separate literary works, and he says

1 Timothy 1:9-11 ESV

understanding this, that the law is not laid down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who strike their fathers and mothers, for murderers, the sexually immoral, men who practice homosexuality, enslavers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine, in accordance with the gospel of the glory of the blessed God with which I have been entrusted.

It isn't figurative that enslavers, liars, murderers are evil (at least I hope not) so why do you grant homosexuality an exception?

1 Corinthians 6:9-11 ESV

Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

This doesn't come off as figurative either.

If the whole Bible can be taken figuratively like you argue, then we can discard Jesus' teaching on forgiveness when someone is a former pornstar, and we can say "oh, you're too far gone to be forgiven" "Oh, he meant everyone else, not you, sweetie"

[-] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

You aren't in any position to condemn the inspired word of God.

If it promotes adult men sleeping with underage boys, or is indecisive about it, I'll just refuse that kind of "inspiration". I think it's immoral. God can strike me down for that if he likes, and if he's in a position to do that, still doesn't change my mind about the subject.

The "although" I placed there was because [...]

Yes, you were talking about something else. People just tend to lose me when talking about God's unconditional love and then following the sentence up with a "but" or "although". I think we agree here. I have reason to believe the New Testament is about unconditional love. And that's reflected at many places in it. Most people add a "but", or "although", an we're immediately in dangerous territory. And the people calling themselves Christians and waving signs with "God hates fags" didn't understand the core of that the New Testament stands for. They're simply wrong. But that's not what you said.

In the old times God was kind of evil. He send plagues, told people to kill each other including all women and children, just the young girls are okay to keep. Nonchalantly drowned pretty much all animals which were pretty much innocent in mankinds wrongdoings. Or he casually dropped them on their heads. It's not like that any more for Christians. That's replaced by Gods unconditional love for his children. And the way of Jesus isn't to blame them and lecture them on how they're wrong all the time. But specifically omit that and show them just(!) the love, and that gets them where they need to be. So that's why I think we should never follow up such sentences with a "but". (And you lost me, which was due to me.)

Are you talking about the plagues of Moses? If that's the case, then what do you propose happened?

I propose it's part of the supposed origin story of a tribe. And the hardships they had to endure. I have no reason to believe superstitious things happen and physics can be contradicted. Plague of locusts exist and all kind of other things. But not random frog droppings in the way portrayed there.

Btw that's also the source for the (6000 years) young earth theory, because as part of the origin story, it includes a family tree and you can add the numbers up.

You are drawing a huge and dangerous brush over here. [...] It is obvious then that stuff like that is up for interpretation. But then when you get to Paul's epistles [...]

I think my main issue is that I completely fail to understand how I'm supposed to know which is open up to interpretation and what's meant to be taken literally. Am I supposed to use reason and my deductive skills here? But that's kind of interpretation again. So I can't do that. And to my knowledge the Bible doesn't really come with an instruction manual what's true and what's over exaggerated or just a nice (but false) story. Or do I just take what some other human said as word for it?

why do you grant homosexuality an exception?

I tried to explain that before. Because it's not there. The text doesn't use the word homosexuality, but "Arsenokoitai". And the passages regularly add constraining adjectives. Which just isn't the case for adultery. The translation is way more forward for that one. And we have more occurrences in the Bible which make it very clear that that one isn't just meant within a certain context, or comes with exceptions. Also Jesus talks about other important issues himself, but for homosexuality that's all in parts added by other people. So that's why I treat that differently.

I mean we have a bit more of an issue here. I started with "depends on whether you ask the church or Jesus". So I'm not really bothered by what Paul thought or wrote down, or covenant theology tells me. If homosexuality were to be important to Jesus, I'd expect it to show up in the Sermon of the Mount or something, and him clearly addressing that big issue. Or I'd like to read some nice parable on how he went to the gay club. But curiously enough, these passages don't exist.

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago

Unconditional love

To which I was never objecting to. I was saying that loving a sinner doesn't necessarily mean you are loving the sin.

God was kind of evil.

God cannot be evil.

I have no reason to believe superstitious things happen and physics can be contradicted.

What about the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, or the many miracles He performed?

[-] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

God cannot be evil.

Yes, I'm wrong here. I think it's a bit of a technicality. He created evil (Isiah 45:7) and no matter if he commits the same thing as evil, per definition that never makes him be evil.

What about the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, or the many miracles He performed?

I think it's a metaphor. And not even the most important one (to me). I think the important part is that he died for us. And then they added some more fluff to the story. It really brings it home and sets him apart as the messiah if there's an added resurrection. And well, I think performing miracles was quite common for prophets back then and paranormal things happened often. Muhammad also performed many miracles including similar ones like providing supernatural food. Various other people did supernatural acts. And people split the sea and did all kinds of things in the Old Testament.

I'm still very unconvinced about the entire homosexuality thing. I mean the Romans text is kind of the God of the Old Testament, needy for valudation and full of wrath. And then he was pissed and gave humans sexual desires contrary to nature. And that and the "shameless acts" are a bit unclear. Whatever that is supposed to mean if I'm not allowed to interpret it. I'd say men loving each other in a genuine way surely can't be that, there's no shame or harm in that.
The Corinthian thing is more it. Still needs context though, since it requires knowledge about sex practices back then and what has been considered immoral by society back then, because it mostly refers to that. And then we have the translation in the way.

My big issue, if that's not concerned with pederasty... What part of the New Testament is? Or is age just not the problematic part of it, ...that'd be completely fine to do for Christians..., just the same gender needs clarification?

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago

Hold it - so you don't even believe Jesus rose from the dead? You've basically proved my point then that it's a contradiction.

You don't believe that Jesus rose from the dead (and thus aren't even Christian in that case) If that's the case I think it is safe to assume that you don't believe Jesus is the very God who determines what love and acceptance are, or right and wrong, all you're really doing is stuffing your own definition of those words into some warmed over talking points, then stuffing that inside the hollowed out name of "Jesus" so you can tell me I am wrong about what my God teaches.

Since you have to disregard Christianity to make your logic work, it proves my point that talking points such as these are incompatible with Christianity.

[-] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

No, I'm not a Christian. I'm sorry, now I think I should have lead with that, or not failed to recognize you were under the assumption I was... I have such an upbringing, I've been part of the church. But I myself don't have the belief in me, that what's in the Bible are factual truths. Still, that doesn't stop me from being interested in Jesus, his life and teachings. And to some degree the scripture itself.

And thanks for the good conversation and your perspective. I learned a lot of things. And I looked some up. My intention was basically that, not proclaim you were wrong. That'd be very hypocritical if I were to try to prove you wrong on the basis of scripture, which I don't even have as the basis for my own morals. I still think these things matter, though. And I follow how the catholic (and protestant) church around me has started blessing same sex couples, they have campaigns now for plurality and welcome such people amongst themselves. And the attached youth organizations sometimes take part in rainbow events like pride month. At least where I live. And from what I get from our conversation, we're likely on the same page here, when I say I welcome that and I think it's a "good" advancement the church made. (It wasn't always like this.)

I think with "the act" itself, we can't settle our differences. I think the entire limitation of sex to procreation isn't right, and I don't base that on scripture. You gave me quite some insight about your perspective, and I still struggle with the translation and the context it is in and its interpretation, but I think I have at least some understanding now.

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 2 points 1 week ago

I'm glad we had the discussion. Although I don't really see why Christians should be expected to alter their beliefs to suit that of non-Christians (in the same way I have no interest in convincing atheists that homosexuality is morally wrong). I think I have said that homophobia - in terms of actually attacking and/or trying to worsen the quality of life or remove rights from homosexual people is completely wrong.

1 Corinthians 5:12-13

For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Is it not those inside the church whom you are to judge? God judges those outside. “Purge the evil person from among you.”

[-] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I think the main issue is that the Bible isn't concise enough for a supposed divine book. It rarely tells me useful things and what to do in my modern life in the big city. Instead it has a lot of passages about camels, living in the bronze age and so on. And I think that's because of what it is. Written by humans, a long time ago, shaped by their perspective. If God had wanted it to contain absolute truth, he shouldn't just have appointed them to write it, but handed out some absolute truth.

And I can see how we can interpret all kinds of things into it. We definitely have the "Christians" who focus on hate. Who run around with these "God hates fags" signs and they find all kinda of things to make other people's life miserable. We have several variants of Christianity and they disagree on many details. We had things from the Spanish Inquisition to today's more liberal times. All based on pretty much the same text. And why is that? Are 99% of people throughout history, and the other variants of current Christians all just wrong and on the wrong path and I'm the only one understanding it correctly? Or who is? Because I really need to know if I'm expected to follow it.

I think it's because Christians do in fact base their morals not just on straightforward literal bible verses. That's why they genuinely and wholeheartedly held different beliefs in the middle ages. That's why they're able to adopt to societal progress. We don't just make women's life miserable any more. They got the right to vote and they're supposed to have equal opportunities now. We even allow them to become teachers. And that's pretty much in direct violation of the bible. Yet I have some friends who are teachers, some even for religion. And the protestant church here even has a male and a female priest and she doesn't view her role as to stay quiet and bear childs. The catholic church which I've grown up in thinks that's not how it's done and they don't appoint females. (Plus she has some formal education on scripture and the inner workings of the Church, so I trust she knows more about it than I do.)

Point being: Women's rights are not an achievement of the church. They didn't sit down, have a covenant and then changed the world to be more open towards women... It's the other way around. Society made progress, and it was a long hard fight. And people adopted.

I think it's basically the same thing with the stands towards LGBTQ+ people.

And we have a few other issues in the catholic church, like Maria 2.0. And the vatican's long held ideas towards contraceptives which are highly problematic because it contributes to spreading HIV.

I have little issues with you and your personal belief system. The issue is that we're all part of the same world and it has quite some impact. And the church still has a big influence. They employ some of my friends, they run entire hospitals and more, several big charities... They shape society. And I'm everything but indifferent towards that. And I don't view myself as an outsider, because I'm living amongst Christians, Muslims, Atheists, Agnostics and all sorts of people. We're really one because we share the place we live in.

I have a problem with people who say scripture has to be taken literally. None of the people I talked with, even with ranks in the Church or a formal education in scripture, has ever told me that, and that's all there is to it. I know such people exist, though. It's not the way I learned it. They gave me the text, but also added context, historical context and told me how we're fitted with a brain with the capability to reason, to understand meaning, and I need to use it. And that got me to where I am.

Luckily the community around me mostly shares what I recognize in your comments as well. How "The gospel" means "good news" and that's the central point of how you're supposed to practice it.

Edit: And to add some conclusion: I sincerely think all the laws governing sexuality, like outlawing anal sex, or teaching how the death sentence is appropriate for coitus interruptus (contraception) are the way of the Old Testament. It's in the spirit that humans are meant to suffer for sins, not enjoy life. And that has been replaced by the "good news" part and the new covenant.

I mean what do you think? Do you think intimacy being enjoyable is God's crude way to punish us, or is there more to it after Jesus? Do I deep-clean the couch and break all the pottery and not sit down in my own home for half a month each month or do you think the invention of the washing machine and sanitary products changed how we deal with female biology? And what's with the female priest in the protestant church here? I've listened to her speak in the church and she views that as her job. I don't even have to revert to the Old Testament to judge. Paul has a very clear stance on that. What's correct in your eyes? Because I think this is very similar to what we're talking about.

[-] rglullis@communick.news 1 points 1 week ago

We are all sinners, aren't we?

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 2 points 1 week ago
[-] rglullis@communick.news 1 points 1 week ago

So, what is the contradiction here?

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 1 points 1 week ago

Just because we're all sinners isn't a licence to sin.

[-] rglullis@communick.news 0 points 1 week ago

That does not answer the question.

Do you think a "divorced Christians" community would be a contradiction?

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

If they were affirming unbiblical divorces, or seeking to remarry and encouraging it, yes

[-] rglullis@communick.news 0 points 1 week ago

You haven't even seen what the community is about and yet you are ready to pass judgement on it.

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

You're both kinda silly.

Divorce is very much in the Bible. In both Old and New testaments.

Honestly I don't think I've ever met anyone calling themselves a Christian who has actually read the Bible from cover to cover, aside from actual pros (that is actual students of theology).

I was. I did. Now I'm not. And it's not a coincidence.

Christianity is unsuitable with itself, for Christ's sake. It would be literally impossible to follow the Bible with the amount of contradictions there are.

That being said all monotheism is hot garbage.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criticism_of_monotheism

[-] rglullis@communick.news 0 points 1 week ago

I guess you are too eager to preach and are missing the point of my inquiry.

I am not saying "there is no contradiction in Christianity", but "who are we to say that a gay person can not be accepting of Christian teachings?"

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

No eagerness here. Just very boring facts, which you have to ignore to make your case.

The Bible literally instructs to stone people wearing two different fabrics at the same time. A leather jacket and jeans (cotton) ? That's a stoning.

Just because your society hasn't moved past beyond having to pretend childish books are real, doesn't mean everyone here will agree. There are still people here who claim to be Christian, but the Nordics are very secular and you'd never have anyone be upset that something is "against Christianity".

The US is almost a theocracy nowadays, which is so ironic, given how it began and what the founding fathers actually argued for.

[-] rglullis@communick.news 0 points 1 week ago

Accepting Christian teachings/ Christian values is not the same as taking the Bible as irrevocable truth, much less as something that should be used as a law code.

Only fundamentalists would argue as such.

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Ah, so it's the "no, actually I am a Christian, despite not following any of the rules. I just make up my own".

And you don't see why ideology like that is mocked in some very secular countries?

If you claim to be Christian, but then take literally everything to mean whatever you want it to mean, except when it's something you don't like (when religious people protest it's always "It's not in the Bible!" = "it's against Christian values which is the term we're just calling our feelings but here's a clip from the book we don't believe in"), then why are you calling yourself a Christian to begin with?

The answer is because you're afraid of denouncing Christianity and organized monotheism as the bullshit they so very clearly are.

What are these "Christian values" of yours then? Oh the very core or Jesus' teachings, which is the very core of pretty much any even remotely functional ideology, the golden rule; do unto others as you'd have done to yourself.

It's not in any ways inherently Christian. Judaism, Confucianism, Islam, Buddhism and various others all have it.

So if that's all you're taking from Christianity and nothing that's unique to Christianity, then why call your values Christian? Because you dislike explaining yourself to annoying older relatives, that's why.

But if you can come out as trans, then surely awkward conversations with conservatives are already on the books, so why not go all in and actually take the smart stance in religion as well.

I'm not an atheist, by the way. I used to be. Just like I used to be Christian. First I grew out of Christianity, and then I grew out of atheism. So I don't know what you think I'm "preaching"?

[-] rglullis@communick.news 0 points 1 week ago

Ah, so it’s the “no, actually I am a Christian, despite not following any of the rules. I just make up my own”.

Notice I did not say "I am a Christian", but "accepting of Christian values". If you can not understand this difference, I am not sure how much I can help.

All your rant after that is built out of a strawman, so there is no point in arguing further.

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

Please do elaborate on what you mean.

How else would I know? What you're saying seems to have literally nothing to do with Christianity.

You can't state what said values are, nor do you say whether your "acceptance" of them means you try to follow them or if you believe in them?

The fact you can't really find those answers should be a hint to the amount of indoctrination around organised religion, for the reasons I've explained. I had it when I was around 18, one night at the night club, we were outside for a smoke, and this ~10 years older guy just enquires — in somewhat good faith — why I wear the cross around my neck. It was a golden cross and I got it as a confirmation gift at 15.

But the question stuck with me, and I ended up taking it off. I don't remember whether on the spot or months later.

But the facts are that if people genuinely just go with whatever we think is moral at the time, then why on Earth would anyone claim to found their moral ideology on a book they have to literally mostly ignore?

It doesn't make sense.

Now if you'd just asked "do you think you can be accepting of people who act according to the golden rule", then ofc the answer is "well yes, there's zero reason why you wouldn't".

Pretty much the only reason you're asking this is because you know that "Christian values" can refer to conservative transphobic values as well. I'm sure the ones you're asking for aren't, but you're aware it's a possible meaning of the word.

So please, elaborate. I can't read your thoughts, so I can't actually know what you mean unless you explain what you mean by "Christian values"

[-] rglullis@communick.news 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

A very short description would be to look at the Bible not as prescriptive rulebook which we should be using to measure ourselves against, but as a descriptive collection of stories that can help us make sense of human nature and understand that all these "contradictions" are not meant to be solved, but manifestations of our fallibility.

E.g, I see the story of Babel and I don't think "that's why we have different languages in the world" or "if you try to reach God by other means than salvation, He will punish you" but simply "technological progress and science alone are not enough to bring us closer to some utopia (closer to God)". I think of Kosher diets not as "if you eat pork you are a bad person and deserve eternal damnation", but "at that time and historical contexts, pork meat was full of deadly pathogens, so it would be wise to avoid it".

This is just scratching the surface and it would take a bit more time than I have now, but I will try my best to answer you later.

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago

Name one contradiction and I'll address it. Not going to do all 400

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

"Make it easier for me to ignore facts"

Wtf are you smoking

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago

I am not answering 400 supposed "contradictions" on a Lemmy thread 💀

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

As if you could.

You've not even read the whole thing, I would bet.

Much less being able to suss out literally hundreds of contradictions. So what you're saying is "it doesn't matter how ridiculous and contradictory Christianity is, I would never accept that being the case, no matter the evidence. I've made up my mind and there's no changing it. It's called having faith."

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago
[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

Oh you're at the infantile "I'm gonna name a fallacy as an argument" stage of your development. Congrats on turning 16.

Unfortunately, what you're doing is called argumentum ad logicam.

More commonly known as the fallacy fallacy

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago

You literally sent me a graphic I had to zoom in on alleging 439 "contradictions" in the Bible and telling me that my argument is invalid because I am refusing to answer every single one in a lemmy thread. I volunteered to answer any one you propose to me. Just not all 439, for the sake of time.

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

Sent "you"?

No, I posted one, and no I'm not saying that's the reason.

You're saying that the Bible being literally filled with contradictions doesn't matter, and you base that on there being too many contradictions to answer in a Lemmy comment.

If you were arguing in good faith, you could arbitrarily pick some and show why they're not actually contradictions. But you can't. You can't do it to a single one, let alone all of them.

And despite that, despite whatever, there is NOTHING that you would accept as proof of Christianity and monotheism being bad.

Literally nothing.

It doesn't matter that historically monotheism is obviously violent and crazy, it doesn't matter that the Catholic Church has been systematically raping little boys for God knows how long, NONE OF IT MATTERS TO YOU.

You're literally arguing in bad faith. Yet you pretend as if naming a fallacy makes you right. Then you get even more ashamed when I point out how nerdy and wrong it is to larp a philosopher by answering with a pretentious latin form of a fallacy. I point it out with a pretentious Latin form for the fallacy you used. Then you still refuse to actually produce any rhetoric.

Like I said, there is NOTHING that would change your mind in this. The ultimate bad faith.

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago

You posted a graphic with 439 alleged contradictions. I need to verify them actually being contradictions to answer your comment. But I have literally spent my time as I have grown up reading and investigating these alleged contradictions and couldn't find any holding water. If you want me to arbitrarily pick one for you, I can. I just thought it would be best to let you pick a favourite.

I don't see how other self professed monotheists raping little boys disproves monotheism. That's like saying evolution isn't real because scientists in that field also argued for eugenics. And yes, it does matter to me. Child abuse disgusts me at my core and I would love nothing more than to see these people drowned with a millstone... Although that's probably too kind to them.

Anyway, Random number generator told me "205". "At what time of day was Jesus crucified?"

Mark 15:25

And it was the third hour when they crucified him.

John 19:14-16

Now it was the day of Preparation of the Passover. It was about the sixth hour. He said to the Jews, “Behold your King!” They cried out, “Away with him, away with him, crucify him!” Pilate said to them, “Shall I crucify your King?” The chief priests answered, “We have no king but Caesar.” So he delivered him over to them to be crucified. So they took Jesus,

Precise timekeeping is a modern innovation. Back then, they divided the day into quarters. Third hour could mean any time in the late morning or afternoon. Sixth hour could mean early or late afternoon. These people were eyeballing the sun.

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

I need to verify them actually being contradictions to answer your comment

That would require actually reading the Bible. Have you? I have. As I told the other person, I've had a Christian confirmation when I was 15.

don't see how other self professed monotheists raping little boys disproves monotheism

Disproves? As in, we're going to argue whether a single God actually exists? Don't be childish.

My proof is that the the Bible isn't the word of God is the Bible itself.

Eventually God can't make a triangle which doesn't have three angles. Because then it wouldn't be a triangle, see? You can go ahead and start looking into those contradictions, although I assume that if you actually do, that will be the most Bible you've ever actually read.

would love nothing more than to see these people drowned with a millstone... Although that's probably too kind to them.

Yet you defend the system which makes it possible in the first place, became the act of rape is so disconnected from you supporting Christianity that you think it's morally alright to still "believe" despite the massive and SYSTEMIC raping of children the Catholic Church did.

It doesn't matter what hour Jesus died in. It matters that there's contravening accounts. If there's a contradiction, both obviously can not be correct and thus the Bible can not be the infallible word of God, despite claiming so.

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yes I have read the Bible. I was Baptised in my early 20s. A triangle with four angles isn't a failure of power, it's a failure of language. We have a four angled shape God can create. It's called a Quadrilateral.

Rapes happen in hospitals and schools - does that mean proponents of healthcare and education are defending a system that makes it possible? Shame on them, I guess.

If you had a criminal court case, and you only had one witness, it would be less reliable than one with two witnesses.

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

a failure of power, it's a failure of language.

And what is scripture made out of again? God .. or language?

You're really gonna make me go through all the tedious examples of how illogical monotheism is? No thanks.

Yes I have read the Bible

The whole Bible, not just bits which you found through googling it? The actual, whole book, from cover to cover?

I was Baptised in my early 20s

You read the whole Bible before deciding everything in it is true and thats definitely possible, despite there being sentences like "God can create triangles with angles of ≠ 3?"

Alright, well, you do you m8.

Rapes happen in hospitals and schools - does that mean proponents of healthcare and education are defending

If you show me a healthcare system that has as much systemic rape in it that Catholicism does, I'll show you a healthcare system which I criticise and advocate to reform.

If you had a criminal court case, and you only had one witness, it would be less reliable than one with two witnesses.

I'm sorry but I'm not smoking crack and can't keep up with you.

If you had one witness with red paint on their face, saying "a guy threw red paint on my face", and then you went on to lool for the guy mentioned, and found him, with an empty bucket of red paint and red paint all over his hands, it would be more believable than having a two guys — one with blue paint on him and one with yellow paint on him — saying "a guy threw red paint on us", especially when you then don't find any red paint anywhere, and even the local stores say they don't even recall ever seeing any.

[-] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 1 points 1 week ago

I've read the Bible. I don't just Google it.

I'll show you a healthcare system which I criticise and advocate to reform.

I'm literally a Protestant. I oppose "seals of confession" which allowed most of this abuse to happen. Abuse can still happen, just like how it can happen in schools and hospitals. I don't tolerate it.

If you had one witness with red paint on their face, saying "a guy threw red paint on my face", and then you went on to lool for the guy mentioned, and found him, with an empty bucket of red paint and red paint all over his hands, it would be more believable than having a two guys — one with blue paint on him and one with yellow paint on him — saying "a guy threw red paint on us", especially when you then don't find any red paint anywhere, and even the local stores say they don't even recall ever seeing any.

Except that's not what's happening. One guy said "Jesus was executed around Friday morning" and another guy said "Jesus was executed around the afternoon", and these are two guys from 2000 years ago who's only method of timekeeping was to look at the sun, and they split the day into quarters, it is a lot more understandable. Now say Jesus was executed at around 11am. That would both qualify as morning and around noon. If anything, it shows that they weren't corroborating a made up story and actually witnessed something, since they both gave their estimates of the time.

[-] Maeve@kbin.earth 1 points 1 week ago

I wondered into the weeds in the comments momentarily, then got over myself. I think this is great and crossposted you to the openchristian.ca community. I welcome you as a kindred community and hope we can collaborate as kindred while also offering a welcoming space to any view that's not bigotry and hate-mongering/othering.

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