So I think where popsci messaging is bad is because they get all mixed up between particles and waves
A superposition isn't a particle, it's a wave. It only has the mass/energy associated with the particle, but it is everywhere it can be all at once
The particle is like... The minimum size the wave can fit into. One photon of light can jump one electron up once energy state, and it has to pick one electron to actually do this
You can channel the wave into a particle long enough to measure it, but to measure any aspect of the wave you have to consume it. Now you've converted the energy from one form into another, so any other information that could have been gained is destroyed
That's my understanding at least, it is very much not digital. There's no either or, it's even more analog than analog