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Is there any actual easy to use foss chat app my friends and SO could use ? Everyone uses fb messenger because its so easy. I cant find anything easy enough to make people switch to, that won't have issues and send them running back to zucc

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[-] thejevans@lemmy.ml 109 points 1 week ago

If you can't get people to switch to Signal, you won't get them to switch to anything else.

[-] Dariusmiles2123@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yeah I’m using Whatsapp Business for groups I can’t convince to move (it allows me to have an automated message to say I won’t answer on Whatsapp), Signal for people who could move but won’t pay anything and Threema for almost everyone else including my family.

I wish Signal or Threema would allow a selected opt in interoperability with Whatsapp so that I could really ditch it.

[-] communism@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

I wish Signal or Threema would allow a selected opt in interoperability with Whatsapp so that I could really ditch it.

Could maybe do something with the signal-matrix and whatsapp-matrix bridges? You could probably skip the matrix entirely but may have to implement it yourself

[-] int32@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

whatsapp is a modified XMPP, itnmight be possible to make an XMPP client that can also use the whatsapp servers.

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[-] quaff@lemmy.ca 49 points 1 week ago
[-] narr1@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 week ago

second this. afaik signal is the best option right now for most people and the one i use, and also managed to get some friends, family and even coworkers (which was nice of them, even tho i guess it was easier for them to install signal and center our workplace communication there than to get me to reinstall fucking whatsapp) to switch to, alongside my SO.

[-] Tundra@sh.itjust.works 26 points 1 week ago

Centralised:

Signal American.

Threema Swiss.

Decentralised:

Session

Element X

[-] goldkiddo@feddit.it 1 points 6 days ago
[-] artiman@piefed.social 5 points 1 week ago

Element is just one of many clients I find fluffy chat much more user friendly

[-] HyperfocusSurfer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 1 week ago

Signal is the most user-friendly option so far, which is also expected, given it's also one of the oldest one of those.

Simplex is also a good-ish option, but somewhat rough around the edges; the biggest benefit is, one doesn't need a phone number or e-mail to start chatting.

Matrix is questionable: it's quite feature-rich, but lacks solid android clients (IMO, fluffychat is among the best so far, yet when I last used it, it didn't handle stickers/custom emojis all that well, for example); as for the desktop/web clients cinny is a godsend due to allowing importing/exporting encryption keys manually, which just works all the time.

[-] algernon@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 week ago

I have an unfederated XMPP server (running Prosody), family's using Conversations (Android) & Dino (Linux) with it. We can chat, send images, do voice & video calls. Has been working fine & reliably for the past ~6 years or so. Took about 1.5 minutes for them to get used to the clients.

I'm slowly opening it up for friends too, so friends, neighbours, classmates, etc can chat with us too. It's going great so far, no complaints.

[-] john_t@piefed.ee 5 points 1 week ago

I've managed to screw up every self-hosted service whenever I've made an update, edit a config file or just by looking at it. But my Prosody XMPP server? It's rock solid. That thing never fails, for years and years.

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[-] incentive@lemmy.ml 13 points 1 week ago

Signal is probably your best bet but it's only mostly open source. Element/Matrix is another good option if open source is your concern.

Element can be a bit unreliable when it comes to matrix features, I recommend cinny instead

[-] Tundra@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

how so? Im looking for a matrix client thst has easy onboarding for family & friends with encrypted calls and encrypted messaging by default

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[-] communism@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 week ago

Signal is super user friendly. All my normie friends use it. Not super in the spirit of foss as it's not meant to be self hosted—which imo makes the server practically proprietary/source available. (ik people self host it anyway, but it's not supported and Signal don't like people self hosting or even making custom clients.) SimpleX is good too but not as polished as Signal.

[-] coffee_tacos@mander.xyz 10 points 1 week ago

I'm surprised that no one else has said this one yet: Delta Chat

[-] thejevans@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'm a paid contributor to Delta Chat, but I don't feel like I can recommended it until it includes sealed sender and PFS. Signal really changed the game with chat apps. 2.0 looks great, tho! https://delta.chat/en/help#sealedsender

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[-] Kirk@startrek.website 10 points 1 week ago

"Chat app" like texting/whatsapp?

Or "chat app" like Discord/Slack?

For the former, Signal is going to be the one your friends and family will actually use. For the latter there isn't anything really approaching the same level yet. Matrix/Element is making a good effort but absolutely not there yet, especially on mobile.

[-] brisk@aussie.zone 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Conversations.im

Has an onboarding wizard, includes text, voice and video calling, OMEMO encryption, group chats etc.

But more importantly, what have you tried and why didn't they work for you?

[-] rcbrk@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

Conversations is excellent for XMPP, but only available on android.

For iOS/MacOS Monal, for iOS Siskin, for Linux/Windows Gajim.

[-] JoeBidet@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago

by "FOSS" you mean compatible with the core values of free/libre software?

This rules out Signal because: 1/ some of its server software is proprietary 2/ they dont allow you to communicate with "their" users if you want to run the server software yourself 3/ the prevented authors of free/libre software in the past to distribute their software (find a fdroid/signal thread) 4/ in practice they channel their users through their centralized servers hosted on AWS

(and that's without evoking their questionable funding, and long lasting commitment to make all their users identifiable through phone number, 10+y after US generals declared "we kill people based on metadata"....)

Simplex seems to me like the one really ticking all the boxes.

[-] Ulrich@feddit.org 4 points 1 week ago

and long lasting commitment to make all their users identifiable through phone number

They've had usernames for a good while now...

[-] JoeBidet@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago

usernames is just for users. it is just a display thing. Signal still require that you use a phone# to sign up, and that you keep owning and paying for that SIM over the years in order to be able to verify it at random intervals...

despite being a very anti-privacy feature (esp. from a US company, funded initially bu US gov, who still forces its users to have their metadata stored on a US cloud...), it is also very much anti-user as in many cases around me, people who opened Signal accounts with some SIM card some day later traveled abroad, changed life, etc... and one day were asked to verify their account. (this is in some case what prompted their migration towards other communication networks...)

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[-] int32@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago

I would reccomend XMPP(with OMEMO), for android I reccomend the conversations client, but there are a lot of clients: https://xmpp.org/software/?platform=all-platforms I suggest you choose a client that fully supports OMEMO encryption.

[-] AmanitaCaesarea@slrpnk.net 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

SimpleX, best anonymity. Not really what u are asking for in terms of use case. It's a great messenger app, but still needs some refining in their UX. But I still like to mention it. Probably Signal then.

[-] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 2 points 1 week ago

Love it. Very easy to use and looks great, IMO.

[-] AmanitaCaesarea@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 week ago

Aye but things like same account use isn't quite there yet.

As in, you can connect your phone to a pc and use it from there. But then u can't use it on your phone, while connected with another device.... if i remember correctly.

At one point I had a group chat with my phone, home desktop, and work laptop. Whereas whatsapp u just connect once and go.

It's probaly to secure your privacy and technical stuff under the hood....

It's a great app nonetheless, so I shall always shill it over Signal lol.

[-] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 1 points 6 days ago

That's true. And it doesn't seem like you can connect phone to pc if both are using Tor. I think this is the only downside.

[-] Zoldyck@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Signal is easy and straightforward to use

[-] Jaberw0cky@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Fluffychat (matrix), Deltachat seem really good but good luck getting anyone to change. Let us know if you figure out a way to persuade people they should make any effort or try something new.

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[-] ambitiousslab@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

I would say Snikket if you want decentralised, Signal if you don't.

[-] tectabyte@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 week ago

Revolt looks promising, but is more along the lines of Discord. It is less mature than other previously mentioned alternatives. https://revolt.chat/

[-] VoxAliorum@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

While revolt is currently unable to provide all features Discord has, for chatting it is definitely a viable option and I am happy to see how quickly it develops. I am considering moving once it reaches a higher state of maturity (I use discord mainly for voice and screenshare). However, I feel like Matrix + Element is the perfect answer to the question.

[-] root@aussie.zone 2 points 1 week ago

Most of the options listed are easy to use. The difficult part is getting enough users to adopt the new system initially to motivate the rest to migrate as well.

[-] solrize@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

I have a self hosted nextcloud that has a web chat feature (Nextcloud Talk). It is pretty easy to use, though it is kind of ugly and slow. I'd prefer to send people to GNU Jami but I've had kind of poor luck with that.

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