Heya, June here :) I'm triilingual and love fusion food. Work's been a snoozefest lately due to some complications that remains to be fixed, so I'm super bored. If anyone wants to chat or get to know each other, hit me up โ I could really use some friendly company!
My interests? Oh, I'm all about video games, painting, movies or music โ these keep my spirits high! To those who message me, sorry if I can't get back to everyone!
Don't just say hi, give me something to work with, and let's have a blast chatting!
Syke, no pics here! ;P (also not necessary just to be clear!)
This is just an example of what a personals ad could look like!
Format goes like this: [Age] [Gender]4[Gender] [area] - [a short description]
So a guy looking for a girl would look like this: 31 [M4F] KL
A girl looking for all genders would look like this: 33 [F4A] Ipoh
Also, this doesn't necessarily have to be romantic, it could be for people just looking for online friends/companions too!
Also, I would like to use this opportunity to put out feelers about events I've been thinking of having which is perfect for smaller communities like ours:
3 vs 3 Blind Dates!
Anyone interested can PM me to sign up (via anonymous forms, I won't even need to know your username), I only need to know your gender and sexual preferences.
Basically, three guys, three girls, public setting, getting to know each other. First and foremost, I actually see this more as a getting to know more people thing, so I'm still hesitant to call it a blind date tbh. I haven't really figured out the actual dynamics of it yet, but I feel like it has potential! Let me hear feedbacks if any, as well as safety precautions!
OOH right blind MEETUPs, yeah that sounds good!
I was also thinking:
we don't get to exchange contacts until we've gone through two sessions (for safety reasons among others). The contacts will be sent via the host i.e: Person A wants to connect with Person B. So host will send Person B Person A's contact, it will be up to B to respond to A.
I'm not so certain there would be pressure, I mean it's sort of what one should expect since we're putting ourselves out there... Even if there is pressure, maybe this would be good practice to not do things out of pressure? :S Not something we don't have control over though, we could always put these in a disclaimer that you have to agree to when you sign up.
Most likely the people who signed up would not use their username but a nickname that they would actually use to introduce themselves as irl, or at least, that was what I had in mind. Also it's sort of a control test so it's by design; if I am hosting it, then I am responsible. I also serve as a gatekeeper; some girls may be too cavalier about giving out their info or what not and vice versa. I dunno, so many things that we have yet to experience until we actually do it to be able to see this from all angles.
I feel like if you don't want people to reach out to you then don't join..? >.<
Having them not respond to a host rather than a direct PM surely is less pressure.
Isn't that what I just said? O.O
Isssit? Sowwy ๐
did you leave because of what I said T.T
you lefffft our server T.T
Personals, dating advice, have at it.