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I do not get enjoyment anymore out of being online, not at all. I used to really love being online; Gaming, Reddit, Discord and all that. Especially certain games and Reddit (games due to MMO and Reddit because of fun video’s, niche communities and such).

However, for the past several years I actually do not like being online and even sort of despise it. There’s no fun at all anymore, everything is either AI, ragebait, politics turned into fights and just overall misery around the world (wars, fascism, racism and general hatred).

Even the communities that should be fun end up often enough into the same things as mention previously (such as politics, ragebait and hatred). I have even tried different platforms (such Instagram, Tumblr, BlueSky, Mastodon). Even Lemmy itself ended up with a lot of the same issues Reddit has.

Yet with knowing this, I still end up being online. Reddit, Lemmy and occasionally Instagram. It’s this kind of FOMO thing: ‘’what if there’s news about X thing’’ or ‘’there might be something fun now’’. Not only that, life its self is also not so fun and kind of boring (office work, work from home and some life circumstances) and due to that still end up being online.

This post is kind of three things; a rant, offmychest and a question to the reader.

So I was wondering; do other people have a similar feeling about the internet not being so fun anymore as it used to be?

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[-] kandoh@reddthat.com 3 points 1 month ago

Part of the fun was that not everyone was was online, so you saw unique things that other people didn't.

Everything is monoculture now. Everyone is referencing the same things and everyone is pretty much in the loop.

[-] ockenheimer@feddit.org 2 points 1 month ago

Sometimes I think, I’m just getting older. With a wider scope now in my forties I’m disillusioned of the peaceful world I thought experiencing in my younger years. Maybe this is just live. Everything is on fire and no one had time for fun anymore

[-] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It's usually the vocal minority making everything depressing and I find that if you block 20 or so communities or a handful of power users then you get a nice feed without missing out on anything.

You can also visit us on !dull_mens_club@lemmy.world and

!dullsters@dullsters.net

[-] kinther@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Its corporate social media. They changed the algorithms so that you have "content" shoved down your throat as soon as you walk in the door. You are profiled, stalked, and they attempt to keep you scrolling as long as possible for ad revenue. Shit that barely passes as "content" by people with half a pulse that isn't funny gets pushed on you.

You're tired of being used to generate money for someone else.

this post was submitted on 07 Dec 2025
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