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[-] BozeKnoflook@lemmy.world 21 points 4 months ago

There's still hope, I just recently bought a home just after turning 40. You just need to put a ton of money into savings, go bankrupt paying medical bills after something bad happens to your spouse, spend 7 years in borderline poverty, and then have one of your parents die the same month they retire and collect their retirement fund.

I hate that the best thing my father ever gave me was his pension.

[-] NatakuNox@lemmy.world 15 points 4 months ago

Calling my pops now. Letting him know the plan.

[-] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago

Our 85 y/o dad is pretty much our only hope for a retirement fund. Only problem is that his parents and relatives all lived to between 95 and 105. And I’m already nearly 50.

[-] Asafum@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago

your spouse

Yep, no hope lol

Can't afford anything at all on a single income. :(

[-] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 months ago

just need both parents to die

[-] kaitco@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

Slightly better than my path.

I bought a house this year, also age 40. To get there, I took a job with a large soulless corporation that is slowly destroying all of us, and then borrowed against all my retirement to get my down payment money.

I just keep saying, “At least I have a house…”

[-] jordanlund@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Hey now, I banked $30K in cash and bought a house, all I had to do was have a heart attack, open heart surgery, and move to 100% work from home. 😉

3 years after I stopped driving to the office, paying $21 a day to park, and eating out all the damn time... boom! $30K in the bank!

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[-] DioramaOfShit@lemmy.world 9 points 4 months ago

But but 50 year mortgages. Pounce now and you can own by 90

[-] WhatGodIsMadeOf@feddit.org 9 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I've basically given up on everything. Death is more humble than participating in this culture.

[-] Asafum@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

It's literally my "retirement plan."

After my older family pass away like my mother, father, and grandmother, I'm taking a trip to the store and buying a shotgun to eat then fucking off somewhere deep into the woods where hopefully no one has to accidentally find me.

Hey, I know things are dire, but remember our patron saint Luigi.

[-] IronBird@lemmy.world 8 points 4 months ago

seriously, if your gonna kill yourself you might as well take out the worst scumbags around before you do

[-] socsa@piefed.social 6 points 4 months ago

I mean at least take out some fascist politician or something.

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 4 months ago

If you're in the US, get the gun now, you might need it for other reasons. Fascists typically try to take the guns at some point. Don't believe Republican 2nd amendment bullshit. The leaders would love to take the guns, Trump even said as much.

[-] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I mean you can imagine more than that, my plan is to take loans and credit cards I have no plans to pay back, ball out all over the world and then book a solo sky dive, perhaps over an active volcano and dive straight into it

[-] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 8 points 4 months ago

Seriously got lucky by inheriting one. It sucks thinking about anyone to afford one out the pockets.

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

Yeah, we've decided that we're just gonna pick a house we like and move in. If someone lives there, they can live under it. Got 64 more layers til bedrock, right?

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[-] NauticalNoodle@lemmy.ml 8 points 4 months ago

i'm not sure i ever held out hope of owning my own home.

[-] bestagon@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago

So if younger generations have less and less capital with which to enter the housing market, then where does the value appreciation come from I wonder?

[-] LordCrom@lemmy.world 11 points 4 months ago

House flippers keep buying houses, painting shit white, then selling it to another flipper for 100k more than they bought it for

[-] BanMe@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

At this rate HGTV will have turned everyone on Earth into a house flipper by mid next year.

[-] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 4 months ago

I'd love to buy a home

I just can't do it any time soon due to ballooning prices where I currently live

I have so much debt that I'm certain this regime will fuck up and make it worse for me, there's little recourse to getting assistance with any sort of other debt. I keep trying to save but shit.keeps.breaking. I'll never own a home, never retire, I barely have a comfortable life. Tell me what I'm not doing what those intrusive thoughts are telling to do again?

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[-] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 7 points 4 months ago

airbnb, and corporate landlords(blackstone/rock) are the blame. plus the low wages of many fields too.

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[-] BanMe@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

I'm a millennial with a house but no retirement savings, and the WSJ tells me the average millennial has over $1m in retirement assets now, so fuck y'all and your privilege. (I'm just kidding, I know you're poor too)

[-] Psiczar@aussie.zone 7 points 4 months ago

Mate, there is no chance the average millennial has over $1m in retirement assets. The average Gen X doesn’t have that much and we have been working a lot longer.

[-] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Love all those articles that are like "By 30 you should be saving and have this much for retirement by now..."

Like lol the car made a funny noise, $100 doesn't even hope to fill a grocery cart, and we're enjoying yet another "unprecedented" planned financial crisis in our lifetimes, what do you want from me here.

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[-] chronicledmonocle@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

I'm glad I bought my house when interest rates were just barely above 3%. I couldn't afford my home if I had to buy it today.

This fucking economy sucks and we need to start removing everyone in power forcefully until the problems go away. Then start again.

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[-] karashta@piefed.social 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Yeah. This has been true for basically my entire adult life. Graduated high school in '02 into a job market still fucked from the dotcom crash, got my theater career into gear, destroyed utterly by the GFC. Went from construction to pest control as I was looking for more recession proof work, was a season away from getting my ACE certification... Destroyed by covid-19.

If this was it, I probably could maybe at least have a shot, but then I quit nicotine, fell while feeling sick and dizzy from withdrawal and got a TBI.

I'll be lucky if I get to continue living in anything remotely as nice as this little apartment I'm in with my brother.

Honestly, almost never had a shot anyway, even without my personal issues.

[-] guy@piefed.social 3 points 4 months ago

Mainly the issue is not being able to afford a house, but being able to afford a house close to civilization.
There's plenty of houses to buy for 5 000 € or less but in places where the closest store is 100 km or more away.

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 4 months ago

Holy shit in the US a one room shack 100km from civilization would be like $80000 plus.

[-] JordanZ@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

My uncle is retired so the distance didn’t really bother him. He bought a 1200sq/ft(~111m^2^) 1 bedroom 1 bathroom house built in the 1890’s in a town with a population of about 900….It was still $87K. So you were pretty much right on.

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[-] IronBird@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

and those places arent any better than the cities, small town america is even more corrupt than the cities.

[-] GaryGhost@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

In 2018 I bought a $30000 condo through fannie may, in a really bad part of the city. It wasn't great, but I had the basic necessities, utilities, bath and bed. Property taxes were under $500 per year. The down side was that I couldn't just ask people to come over, I had to always watch out for people who were watching me. I had someone let out a burst of bullets outside my bedroom window on easter morning 6am. A car alarm with the level sensor saved me tons of money. It wasn't the greatest but if we're talking about survival and living in an RV is outlawed, then gentrification is the next option.

[-] LordCrom@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago

I would live in a nice sized RV if any fucking city in america woyld let you park the thing. Cities hate RVs

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[-] socsa@piefed.social 4 points 4 months ago

Shit I live in a relatively nice part of the city and we still get occasional bursts of gunfire a few times per year. That's just part of the American dream.

[-] octobob@lemmy.ml 5 points 4 months ago

I live in this weird little cut of houses tucked in the woods but between three different neighborhoods in the city. One day I was raking leaves and found a loaded Glock with an extended mag someone must've just chucked at my house.

It was actually in pretty decent shape but no way am I keeping a potentially hot gun.

[-] unreliable@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 4 months ago

At least almost dead people are getting a tons of money to give to they spoiled grandchild wante into unnecessary stuff

[-] PissingIntoTheWind@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I have almost 200k put away and it isn’t enough.

[-] StewNasty@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago

Us Millennials sure do love destroying industries by non-participation such as... lemme check my notes here... housing. Pack it in, chaps, another job well done.

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