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Lemmy.
Normal people with normal levels of 'give-a-fuck' about their social media don't bother with federated systems. They just go where the crowd is. If someone is on here, they're weird.
Fair enough :) Thanks
That reminds me of a meme....

(@sunsofold@lemmings.world this isn't directed at you, the meme was made beforehand...)
The delicious irony of using a normal distribution to make this point
If the person making it didn't giggle and know exactly what they were doing when they did that, then I will lose all faith in this world.
I understand your question and I do not think "all of lemmy" is a serious answer to it. lemmy is comprehensively dorky but not weird on the whole. memes about donald trump and linux don't quite have that quirked out charm.
where is the SCA of lemmy? I'm not sure but maybe you'd find something to your liking on the Local tab of one of these instances: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/ https://lemmy.sdf.org/ https://beehaw.org/. Make accounts, browse "Local" and block those big comms like meme, news, technology.
If you don't find your niches there, check out the rest of the fediverse. Lemmy is just a small piece. You might have better luck with a larger pool of people like mastodon, or a narrower one, like misskey. In all cases, be the kind of weird you want to see in the world, and you will attract like-minded people. Mind community guidelines. In general, try anywhere artists congregate.
The very best place to meet weird people is out in the world. Talk to people at the bus stop and eventually someone will talk back.
I'd definitely throw https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/ and https://piefed.blahaj.zone/ in there. Queer is just another word for weird after all.
!femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Lemmy411 - Don't know where to find what you're looking for?
As with /r/411 this is where you ask what Community you're looking for but not finding. Perhaps a bit more helpful now that some communities are only found on certain instances.
Found/new community announcements - there are numerous "announcement type communities - see https://lemmy.ca/post/612532
There is also !wowthislemmyexists@lemmy.ca
Before you request There are several resources available to find communities and resources and these have been pinned to the top.
- there are community search engines at https://browse.feddit.de/ and https://lemmyverse.net/communities
- there are numerous other "find a community" and "community announcement" .. communities (list stickied; if you find another, comment pls)
- we will publish a Community Listing (at an as-of-yet-undetermined schedule)
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Rules
- Don't be a jerk or be deliberately unhelpful
- Please post a clear easy to understand request for a community (or instance!)
- Pls no NSFW requests - if you want to create /c/NSFW411 go ahead.
- No posting of personal information
- Please refrain from suggesting users should use search engines or directories.
- No joke, troll or misleading suggestions or requests
- No spam