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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by stupidperson@lemmy.world to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

I got into this situation because something was marked as harassment on my Reddit account, which banned me for 3 days. I had no intention to cause harm, I was just correcting someone over a movie detail that involved transgender but did not criticize trans people at all, but that's not the issue. For some reason, I panicked, wasn't thinking straight, and proceeded to delete that account and make a new one, which is ban evasion. I'm stupid, and for some reason I thought I could make a new account and it'd be fine. I didn't even need Reddit at that time or used it very often at all, so I don't know why I did that. My account got shadow banned a few hours later, which is permanent. What I did was stupid, and I regret my decisions. I'll stay away from anything remotely controversial next time, and I won't create accounts to circumvent the ban again. I never had a malicious intent though, I just want to use Reddit to ask specific questions, socialize about interests, and help others. I contacted Reddit through a support ticket a few times (once a week) and it has been almost a month, yet there is no response, though I've heard it can take several months for a response, if they respond at all, and I could possibly be filing too many tickets. I think it disabled me from logging into the banned account to appeal, so I can't appeal another way. Since I broke the ToS, I am wondering if there is any hope for me. I consider Reddit to be useful in some aspects so it is a bit of a bummer, but it is the consequences of my actions I guess. A permanent life ban is a lot though :/ but it's just a website. It'd be nice to get my account back which is why I am asking, but I totally understand if I can't use Reddit again. Reddit sucks overall but it can be useful sometimes. I'll move on though

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[-] T00l_shed@lemmy.world 26 points 2 months ago
[-] db2@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

Exactly my first thought too.

[-] discocactus@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

Lemmy is already better. Digg...isn't any good yet. Maybe never will be again. Reddit though. Hot trash.

[-] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 10 points 2 months ago

A permanent life ban is a lot though, and I feel bit ashamed :/

What??

You should be proud of it. Print it on a T-Shirt!

[-] pandore@lemmynsfw.com 9 points 2 months ago

Don't waste your time and move on. I was banned because the algorithm doesn't understand sarcasm and nobody care if you try to appeal. In fact, the appeal system itself is broken.

[-] stupidperson@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago
[-] pandore@lemmynsfw.com 8 points 2 months ago

I'm polite saying it's broken, I rather than think it's intentionally broken. The users base is so large they don't care about appeal anymore. It's too time consuming.

[-] protist@mander.xyz 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Most of the people here left Reddit on purpose, so you may be asking the wrong crowd. What I think you should do is never give Reddit another thought and share content here instead

[-] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 months ago

Username checks out.


How do you connect to the internet? If it's cable internet or something similar and you don't have a static IP address, reboot your router until you have a new IP address and then try making a new throwaway email and using that to make a new reddit account.

But really you should just ditch reddit and if you want to view it without logging in or interacting that is always still possible.

[-] mienshao@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

A somewhat similar thing happened to me. Made an admittedly spicy comment on r/FauxMoi on my main account. Got banned from that sub (which was fair). Made a second account months later and inadvertently commented on r/FauxMoi (literally just about a movie premiere date—the story was on my main page) without thinking about my prior account’s ban.

Got immediately perma-banned for ban evasion. I appealed and was ignored. Oh well.

And fwiw, you can still view all the content. Just can’t vote/comment. 🤷

[-] ZiggyTheZygote@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 months ago

I think everyone here has been banned from there. I joined like a month ago, I think? I had three accounts taken down because of ridiculous reasons just like most people. Kind of like people in jail keep saying "I'm innocent, i didn't do nothing". Anyway, i like it here, it's low-key, not too overwhelming and cluttered like the other one. People are friendlier. So stick around. Also, why are you so freaking out and feeling ashamed or guilty of what happened?

[-] CombatWombatEsq@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Not everyone. I’ve never caught any kind of Reddit discipline. There are a few of us around who indie web/fediverse enthusiasts who deeply believe in the project.

[-] IWW4@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 months ago

What should you do?

MOVE ON

[-] stupidperson@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Ye true I sound kinda retarded

[-] disregardable@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

That's so ridiculous. I bet the warning didn't even tell you that you couldn't use another account in the interim.

They don't seem interested in unbanning these kinds of bans. You can get around it, but they need to have no idea it's you. There are posts and videos about it. It's checking your devices and your internet service. You'll need a new device and internet service. You can never connect your old accounts to them, and you can never log the new device/account into an internet service you used (eg. at your moms). It's also recommended to take care to not make it obvious you're the same person. Eg. spend a few weeks just upvoting posts, only go to a few subreddits you didn't go to before, and slowly add the stuff you liked before.

I'm not bothering, personally. Welcome to Lemmy. Checkout Bluesky and Threads.

[-] discocactus@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Mastodon is an order of magnitude better than Bluesky. Threads is just Facebook.

[-] Blackfeathr@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

You're better off without it tbh. This is coming from someone who had an account on there for 13 years, it used to be okay, but big corps, bots, and especially the owner Spez absolutely ratfucked it into a shadow of its former self. It's no longer reliable as a source of information or entertainment since it's roughly 60% bots by volume. You never know if you're actually talking to a real person on the other end.

If you really want to get back, you're going to have to be careful about it. You can use a VPN on a device you've never accessed reddit on before, and you will likely not be detected. But again you have to be really careful. Even so much as opening a reddit link with your new account logged in on a device/IP your banned account was on almost guarantees your new account will get permbanned within a couple of days. They are unreasonably heavy-handed with ban evasions.

[-] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I got banned for opposing the genocide in Gaza before it was a mainstream part of the liberal narrative shelf... Been about a year, I truly don't care. Listen, besides small communities with older folk, it's mostly a cesspool. You can still use it as an aggregate, but the less you interact there, the better. It has also become a complete American MAGA site besides small oases of sanity, so it's just a very annoying experience to talk over there unless you're part of their team and find what they say normal/funny.

[-] stupidperson@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago

I miss when Reddit allowed more free speech.

Me too, friend, me too.

[-] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 1 points 2 months ago

Wait a year and make a new account. Or don't. I recommend the latter.

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