Factorio. When it first came out, I played about 30 mins and I couldn't really get into it. Few months later I tried again, and now have over 3000 hours logged into it!

Outer wilds

balatro

Baldur's Gate 2.

It was the game that took my CRPG virginity. However, I finished the escape from the dungeon (basically the intro) and stopped playing it for a couple of years.

Then I randomly tried it again one weekend in university while drunk and marathoned it.

That's me with Borderlands 2. I tried it for 15mn like 5 years ago, thought it was shit, installed it again a week ago to have another look and it's actually not bad. Repetitive, but well written (lots of puns) and constantly renewed roster of guns that make combat feel kinda new. 6.5/10

Deadlock

Disco Elysium for me! Didn't understand it and thought it was weird. On the third try, it was amazing. I finally understood what it was trying to do. It was an art piece and I don't think I'll ever have that same journey again for a long while.

Valheim.

The first time I tried it, I got a really terrible seed, which turned me off pretty quickly. I also went in solo and blind.

My second time around, I got a pretty decent seed.

One where the Swamps actually gave me iron for once, and the Plains and Mistlands weren't surrounding my tiny ass meadows spawning area...

I also watched a few tutorials and played with friends.

By the end, I had 1800 hours in the game and had built entire towns in vanilla mode.

I spent about twice as much time in creative/debug mode just building away.

I haven't played in a year but I can't wait to dive back in with the new North location once it releases.

Arma 3 was a big reason why I built my first PC. Purchased it in alpha and fucking hated every second of it. Tried it again here and here but it just never clicked, everything was so confusing and it got worse as more dlc and mods were released...I just figured full simulations weren't my thing but was still happy to support the game. In 2022 some friends had me join them for some KotH and I finally learned the basics. Then I joined an Antistasi group, told them I was new and they taught me everything. Now I own the entire series and routinely play A2, A3, and Reforger...I literally have a 2tb ssd just for Arma because I have so many mods, like I am full blown addicted to this shit now.

Monster Hunter.

There's a community saying: everyone loves Monster Hunter, they just haven't played it enough yet. It's an incredibly common experience for new Monhun players to hate it on their first or even second go around, but then eventually fall in love! It happened for me twice in fact. I played Tri on the Wii back when I was a kid, and then World on release in college, but did not get far either time. Then I tried it again a few years later and now I have played at least one monster hunter game from every generation as well as most of the spinoffs and it is my favourite series ever!

Witcher 3. It had me for a bit then lost interest again. But, I'm planning on trying again.

Kenshi. I got it in 2013. It seemed interesing but ran so badly on my machine at the time that I gave up on it. Played it again when I got a better PC and some religious people came around to preach and hand out bibles, I put them in a skin peeler.

Slay The Spire. You never seemed to get powerful enough and the fights always whittled away my health. Much later I played Balatro and this sonehow inspired me to give it another go.

I do think some of the boss design is anti-fun though, or at least punishing you for not following the build the developers want you to. The sequel already seems to be better for letting you play it your way.

Baldur's Gate 3. I tried it when it was in early access and thought it was too clunky. Tried it again a few months ago, absolutely love it.

Skyrim was this for me. Took me a bunch of tries to get into it but its one of my most played games now

Barotrauma, but moreso the Submarine Editor side. I've sunk over twenty hours making only two subs and I love it

Oh it's a distant memory now, but I remember the first time I played RimWorld I bailed out again in less than an hour and didn't touch it again for at least a year

Fast forward to now and I think it's claimed 1500h of my time

Dwarf Fortress back in the day (I think it's more user friendly now). I just couldn't figure out how to do most things.

Then I just decided to like job it: watched some videos, took some notes -- basically did my homework, then was able to build a base and last long enough to starve. And again. Then the next time ran out of booze. Then was doing great but eventually had too many dwarfs and starved again. Then goblins. Then a big monster. And it goes on like that and that's the fun!

Slay the Spire. I hated it when it first came out on the Switch, then got the itch to try it again after watching some challenge run videos. I got it on Steam during a sale, and now I've put over a thousand hours in the game ;_;

FTL the space dogfight roguelike. Took me 10 years to revisit and I've gotten more than a hundred hours in it since then

Hollow Knight

I predict that Cyberpunk 2077 will become this game for me in like 3-5 years

witcher 3

first time playing, i got to the bloody baron and for whatever reason i can't explain, felt like it wasn't resonating with me. went back some time later and was hooked enough to finish the main game and all DLCs.

fucking fantastic game

Fallout 3. When I first played it, it bothered me that there was no weather. Stopped playing it for like 2 years. Started a new game finished it, all the side quests, and the DLCs because suddenly I was just into it.

Sekiro

Dragon Age Origins. My third try it finally clicked, but a year after I bought it!

Baldurs Gate 3. When I first saw it on the Fitgirl website I thought it was boring DnD stuff. A month ago I decided to try it out and have been hooked on it like crack.

Path of Exile. My friend introduced me to the game but he was a hardcore player so I started playing hardcore with him. A few years later I decided to try the game on my own in softcore and got addicted.

I have close to 5000h despite only playing like 8 leagues. (And who knows how many hours on PoB)

Space Engineers. It was a bit hard to get at first, but then it clicked like crazy

Mass Effect. I didn’t get far in the original. Played the Legendary Edition trilogy all the way through. Went back to the original. It’s the tank (Mako). It dies in like 2-3 hits and you get less XP for kills in it. It’s just not fun and they never fixed it in the original. Legendary fixes it. At the very least, it’s balanced to the game’s difficulty setting. Where in the original it’s stuck on the hardest setting, but only for the Mako missions.

Original came out in like 2007, Legendary came out in like 2016. Might be off by a year or two with one or both.