-14

Do wealthy people tend to only date and marry other wealthy people? (sopuli.xyz)

submitted 4 days ago by PixelNomad@sopuli.xyz to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

7 comments fedilink hide all child comments

Red pill 'alpha' guys claim wealthy men don't care about a woman's background and will date poor women, yet they often mock women seeking rich men. In reality, wealthy men tend to date within their social class. Look at Jeff Bezos, David Beckham, or Leonardo DiCaprio—these men date successful women who are already rich or from wealthy families. Even with large age gaps, the younger partners are still well-off. It seems red pill guys overstate the idea that rich men don't care about a woman's status when, in practice, they do.

top 7 comments

sorted by: hot top controversial new old

[-] the_abecedarian@piefed.social 9 points 4 days ago

avoid red pill influencers and communities like the plague if you ever want to date in this lifetime

[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 1 points 3 days ago

Soon as you start thinking like they do its already over. I went down that path. It's a looooong road to get back out. Male lonliness epidemic is by and large self inflicted.

I don't understand, I think of them as lesser, judge them, get angry at them for not being like pornstars, and yet no one wants to date me!

Self reflection time for all of them.

[-] Moonguide@lemmy.ml 7 points 4 days ago

Red pill assholes say a lot of shit they don't mean. Only thing one oughta know is to expect the worst of them, actions and words included.

[-] atropa@piefed.social 6 points 4 days ago

Bot ?

[-] FUCKING_CUNO@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 days ago

No, just some chud with nothing better to do

[-] Lumidaub@feddit.org 2 points 3 days ago

Actual person, he's harmless.

[-] Jaegeras@piefed.social 4 points 4 days ago

So you begin this post with saying 'red pill alpha guys claim' which is entirely subjective because what the fuck do they know?

Wealthy people date whomever they want, because they're wealthy and can afford to, obviously. One thing wealthy people don't want, are people who're dirt poor with no future prospects.

this post was submitted on 31 Mar 2026

-14 points (18.2% liked)

Asklemmy

53820 readers

836 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy 🔍

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

Open-ended question
Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

Lemmyverse: community search
sub.rehab: maps old subreddits to fediverse options, marks official as such
!lemmy411@lemmy.ca: a community for finding communities

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~

founded 7 years ago

MODERATORS