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What are cis and trans alternate types of? I don't think it's "gender identity" because wouldn't that just be man, woman or nonbinary regardless of whether they're cis or trans? Cis/trans just being a qualifier?

If the answer is "I am cis" or "I am trans", what is the question?

Edit: Someone came up with the term "gender congruity" and (after looking up the definition of "congruity") I think this describes what I'm talking about perfectly.

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[-] badgerific@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

I agree with what you're stating and I hope that that's where we are headed - there just being man, woman, and non-binary gender identities. For now though, as I see it, cis/trans become relevant in three ways (off the top of my head):

  1. Medical situations - self explanatory
  2. In pursuance of romantic/sexual relations - society is still at the stage where the visual perception of a person lead to certain presumptions. Not everyone may be okay with dating/having sex with a person who has different genitalia than they presumed that their partner would have.
  3. [This point is my personal opinion] The visibility of people openly owning their journey can be a source of information, give courage to others who are undergoing the same journey and are scared or confused. I knew about my orientation way before I realized that there's a term for it or that their are others like me.

I hope I got your query right.

[-] mush@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Cis and trans aren't opposites.

You can be both at the same time, or neither. A cis woman prints as a woman to observers; she night also be (or not be) trans.

[-] Hypersapien@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I never suggested they were opposites. Elsewhere in this thread I listed white, black and asian as examples of a person's race.

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[-] mizu6079@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

I think they mean:

'"Cis" and "trans" are examples of what?'

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[-] RFBurns@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

...Behaviors and lifestyle choices. They do not rise to the immutable characteristics that qualify for civil-rights protection.

And yes; I've seen the sleazy Wiki edit that attaches "perceived" to the definition of "immutable". 'I just have to believe...' belongs in a child's fairytale book.

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