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[-] sidebro@lemmy.zip 11 points 2 hours ago

People will get bullied over anything, it's not just anime. It's a clash of personalities or cultures. Sometimes, it’s about power dynamics, other times it's just about tearing someone else down to feel better about themselves or for status in some group.

[-] FatVegan@leminal.space 5 points 2 hours ago

My girlfriend has twins and one of them gets bullied for not wearing dresses. The other doesn't. She is so young that the other girls who bully her just started to even understand the difference between a dress snd pants.

[-] Nangijala@feddit.dk 1 points 44 minutes ago

Very true. I recently found out that my mom is an extreme covert narcissist and it's been kinda wild to have a lot of my suspicions confirmed, but yeah. According to my sibs and my boyfriend, I was always her main target and I think it just taught me to expect, accept and seek out abuse because I have been bullied for most of my life by people who have similar traits as my mother. I guess I just bring it out in people when they are around me.

It only started to change right before covid when I had had enough of those types of friendships and started putting more effort into people who were actually nice to me.

Would love to say that it has fixed everything, but nope. Now I just bully myself to feel normal.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

You can also bullied for not doing something, as much as you can for doing something, or not doing something in a sufficiently symbolically popular way.

Like the Ribbon episode in Seinfeld, where Kramer supports the AIDS walk, but he doesn't want to wear the AIDS ribbon on his shirt, so he gets assaulted by a gang of ribbon wearers.

I had a similar incident where I didn't want to wear trans pride flags for an event, but I supported the event, but still pro-trans bullies wanted to paint me as trans hating bigot for not wearing their flag. It was just power-tripping weirdos, for whom the irony of their insistence of social conformity of others appearances and behaviors was lost. Because hey, they bullying you doing it for a Good Cause, so it's OK when they do it.

[-] jpablo68@infosec.pub 5 points 2 hours ago

Mexican here, we had anime on Saturday morning TV in the 90s and still liking anime as a teenager and beyond was a ticket to being seen as either immature or a pervert, and yes being bullied or ridiculed by saying you liked it.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

people just told me I was gay for liking Gundam Wing.

[-] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 6 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I was into anime cartoons in the ‘80s, read Fantasy, D&D, and Sci-Fi, was into computers and gaming since the Atari, and a dose of neurospicy did absolutely no favors. Likely the ND drove me to the hobbies I enjoyed because they were escapes from the shittiness of the world outside of them. Yeah, I absolutely got bullied and pushed to the fringes.

At any rate, I don’t dwell on it, but the “mainstreaming” of things like IT and gaming has filled them up with assholes and jocks using them as dick measuring contests. It’s now a power play to be a CTO or IT coder or some kind of popular game streamer instead of a geek playing with computers.

It’s not the same world anymore. Probably why I haven’t used VoIP chat in any game for near a decade now. Too many assholes.

[-] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago

Yeah I miss real nerds. Everyone thinks they can type a prompt and be all "computery" when they dont know fuck.

[-] glimse@lemmy.world 37 points 7 hours ago

I think both the greentext and tweet are wrong.

It's not liking anime, it's the type of person who gets obsessed with anime. Most of the anime kids at my school were VERY immature and wouldn't shut up about Japan. They'd call you baka and say a dog is kawaii

Only my metalhead friends and internet friends knew I liked anime. I didn't want to be associated with that type of fan.

[-] RamenJunkie@midwest.social 10 points 6 hours ago

Yet if you go around using sportsball terms as slang and tossing the ol' pigskin in the hallway, nobody bats an eye.

[-] glimse@lemmy.world 8 points 5 hours ago

Do you have an example or is this from an 80s movie? I can't think of a single sports term someone would use to insult you or say something is cute.

Not sure how common it is outside of media for people to be throwing footballs around in the hallway, either..

[-] RamenJunkie@midwest.social 4 points 5 hours ago

Cover all your bases

From left field

Thow you a curveball

Roll with the punches

Throw in the towell

Move the goalposts

Par for the course

There are plenty more but its basically so ubiquitous no one even notices all their cringy sports terms in every day life.

(/s on the cringy, just a play on op)

[-] glimse@lemmy.world 9 points 4 hours ago

Those are idioms. The anime kids were weirdly incorporating Japanese words into their communication with English speakers and doing kamehamehas in the hallway.

Here's something more analogous: A friend spent the summer before senior year in France and when she came back, you could not get through a conversation without her dropping a French word or relating something to "how they do things in France". And yes, we made fun of her until she stopped.

[-] RamenJunkie@midwest.social 4 points 2 hours ago

Thats kind of how language works though. Words get borrowed and absorbed from other languages all the time.

[-] glimse@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

Yes but that's done naturally, not shoehorning it into conversation with people who have no idea what you're talking about

[-] Gaja0@lemmy.zip 9 points 6 hours ago

I remember in my Midwest college band, we stopped at a mall during a trip. Everyone broke off into smaller groups.

Timid kids were orbiting the anime shop for a while before I intentionally and loudly invited someone I liked to go in; "Woah, look it's [goku,(can't actually remember)], do you want to go check it out?" "Uh, sure." Within minutes, the crowd awkwardly coming inside.

I remember the anxiety. I am so insecure and never talk to anyone, so I thought this would define me as a perverted loser. I was so relieved man. Even people I didn't think could like anime were coming in.

As far as bullies, I feel like I remember the ones in highschool being fans of anime. Most people here who don't like anime just don't know it exists.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Yeah maybe I'm just a millennial, but my bullies weren't cool either. I was never bullied for being a nerd, I was bullied sometimes because I sucked or lacked social skills and sometimes because I was an easy target with low social penalty for picking on.

[-] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 87 points 11 hours ago

People totally did get bullied for liking anime, I'll just say that now.

[-] Malyca@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 hours ago
[-] Etterra@discuss.online 26 points 8 hours ago

Same with d&d and video games.

[-] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 3 points 5 hours ago

Or the "wrong" kind of music

[-] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 8 points 7 hours ago

Yep true! I think it went from "all Video Games get you bullied" -> "not playing the right video games gets you bullied" -> videogames now widespread and won't get you bullied, but I there's probably a bit of the previous two going on in some schools.

[-] johnyreeferseed@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 hours ago

I remember being teased for liking Halo 3 because everyone else was obsessed with COD for being "realistic".

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

lol i still get bullied for playing video games. but it's mostly from people my own age who basically think it's a shameful horrible 'unproductive' thing to do... but will spend hours on social media or watching brainrot tv.

[-] faintwhenfree@lemmus.org 31 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

I agree with you, I am fairly large and I changed schools frequently. Every new school id be bullied for first few weeks and it would only stop when bullies realise I can beat them more than they can beat me, and that i wouldn't shy away from confrontation. But liking Anime was like top two reasons

The most memorable is I was new to school and 12. I had a Keychain attached to my bag of bato from GiTS, not even motoko, at first this guy thought he was GI Joe and it was fine, then he asked more about the figure and upon learning it's anime, he stole it.. And about 2 days later decided with two of his friends, I had to be taught anime bad by shoving it down my throat. Two friends held my hand and the psycho was getting me to open my mouth to shove it in, when I broke free from one of the friend and punched him so hard it broke his nose, then kicked one other guy in nuts. I fucking ran to staff room to have some adult around. Well I almost got kicked out of school. But some 16-17 year old bystander girl went out of her way to explain everything. And I only got suspended for a week. Stories like this were common everytime I change schools, bullies test me, they realise I am willing to fight before going down and thankfully being large, I could do some serious damage. They'd give up bullying after a few months. And then a year or two later, new school. Rinse and repeat.

[-] faintwhenfree@lemmus.org 24 points 10 hours ago

That being said, I also hated kids who did Naruto runs and called me senpai. I didn't bully them, but I don't think I ever tried to stop them from being bullied.

[-] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 8 points 9 hours ago

That's suddenly reminded me of how I had a high school friend who tried to use me as a bodyguard, always getting himself into the stupidest situations and aggravating random people

[-] village604@adultswim.fan 2 points 3 hours ago
[-] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Hilarious 🤣

Also, super impressive Meegan voice from Peele

[-] village604@adultswim.fan 2 points 2 hours ago

Meegan and Dante are hands down my favorite recurring characters.

[-] faintwhenfree@lemmus.org 3 points 7 hours ago

I relate to that. Since I would be stopped from bullying at some point, the other bullied kids would generally hang around me with the hopes of me being bodyguard. And most kids were just nice kids that needed break from being bullied.

But in grade 8 there was this kid, who wasn't even bullied that much, mostly because he was a phenomenal runner and was really good at running away and also really good at spotting bullies. He'd keep preaching stuff like "fuck bullies" and "bullies don't deserve the world" and other nonsense. But the kid sometimes was just an asshole.

One day the kid threw glue in hair of a couple of girls, obviously the strong girl from class with a couple of "bully" dudes came looking for payback and he thought I'd fight on his behalf after avoiding beating for like two entire days. I literally held him by arm till the "bully" kids took charge at beating his ass.

Anyway I guess my point is, it's complex bullying and anti-bullying. Some people take advantage of the wrong things.

[-] Don_alForno@feddit.org 4 points 8 hours ago

I can't remember a single person in my school life who ever did anything like this. Usually it went like "I watch Pokemon" -> straight to bullying.

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 7 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

"lol you were never bullied" by jackasses...

The image anon is using as an example does not say they were not bullied. It says they weren't bullied just for liking anime, but for doing cringy stuff they saw in the anime like Naruto sprinting. Like, read the rest of the god damn sentence, anon.

[-] coolie4@lemmy.world 37 points 14 hours ago

Anime was never a problem. Sailor moon, Pokémon, and DBZ were super mainstream, and you had stuff like Voltron and Speed Racer before that.

The issue is people who either only talk about their hobby, try to force other people into it, or in the case of anime, expect real life to be the same way or act it out themselves (see naruto running comment in OP's screenshot)

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago

tell that to my dates who see cowboy bebop dvd set and freak the fuck out at me that I'm a weeb.

[-] anyhow2503@lemmy.world 24 points 9 hours ago

This completely depends on your age and what kind of peers you were surrounded by. You're nuts if you think no one was ever bullied for liking stuff because it was mainstream at the time and place you grew up in. Kids can be vicious little creatures and would bully you for liking the wrong Pokémon when I was in school.

There's probably something very wrong with you if you actually think that bullying is acceptable under any circumstances. Even if some kid is behaving weirdly or likes something deeply unpopular - so what? That's not harmful behaviour and even if it somehow was, bullying is still the wrong way to deal with that. I barely trust most adults to have a working moral compass, let alone kids. I know there's been a resurgence in this kind of thinking on social media where people push the idea that bullying is an acceptable form of social "correctional" behaviour, which isn't just incredibly stupid but also deeply disgusting. If you look at any of the most serious bullying cases of teenagers being driven to suicide by their schoolmates, none of it was ever justified or even had an apparent reason other than: this person makes for an easy target.

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