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[-] H3L1X@lemmy.ml 38 points 1 year ago

Yeah, that is the most common response I get. Not quite sure what the best approach to deal with that is.

[-] ober@lemmy.dbzer0.com 89 points 1 year ago

Generally I've found the people who say this get privacy and secrecy confused. You close the door when you go to the bathroom because you want privacy, not because you have anything to hide. Everyone has a pretty good idea what you're doing in there but you close the door anyways. Secrecy would be if you were cooking Meth in the bathroom and wanted to keep it a secret.

[-] PropaGandalf@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

That's the right response!

[-] GameMuse@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Saving this post

[-] ChaoticEntropy@feddit.uk 2 points 1 year ago

I'll never tell.

[-] leraje@lemmy.blahaj.zone 36 points 1 year ago

Ask them when you can install the bug on their phoneline, open their mail and remove their bathroom door.

[-] H3L1X@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 year ago

Worth a try, I suppose.

[-] hiramfromthechi@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago

I got someone to use Signal recently, because I don't text outside of it. Last week, she asked me why that is. I sent this Bruce Schneier essay on the eternal value of privacy to someone who knows absolutely nothing about tech, and she understood.

I'm gonna try it again next time it comes up with someone else. I think this essay does a really good job of putting it into perspective, so I'm hoping this is the silver bullet I can continue to send when someone asks.

Overall, in general, I try to keep it in real world terms. Why do you close the door when you go to the bathroom? Why do you lock your doors? Why do you have curtains/blinds? etc., along with what some other intelligent people responded here.

[-] H3L1X@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Thank you for that article, it is brief, to the point and easy to understand. I will try giving that to people in the future.

[-] h3ndrik@feddit.de 25 points 1 year ago

Let me scroll through your phone, see if there are some nice pictures or chats, the google search history, browser history... Uuh what's that Lovense Buttplug App for? Do you have any medical conditions or mental health struggles? How do you approach people on Tinder? What's your salary?

[-] ISOmorph@feddit.de 17 points 1 year ago

"Can I please use your phone?" and then just start scrolling through their texts and pictures

[-] omnissiah@iusearchlinux.fyi 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Going to try this next time.

Or online; "send me a selfie of you"

[-] Sho@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

"The rights we enjoy today may become illegal tomorrow"

[-] H3L1X@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I tend to like that response, sometimes it works but people seem to think it would never happen here...

[-] Sho@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

True, you just can't reason with some ppl.

Offer to install a security camera in their restroom, duh

[-] H3L1X@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago

Hah, fair enough, most people don't seem to understand that it is so close to that though.

[-] Zerush@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

Better in every room, even the bathroom

[-] BearOfaTime@lemm.ee 13 points 1 year ago

"The you won't kind providing me with your full birth name, ss#, address, mother's maiden name, bank account number, pin, computer login, phone login" etc, etc.

Suddenly they'll be worried about privacy.

[-] root@aussie.zone 10 points 1 year ago

"I too have nothing to hide but that doesn't mean that it is something I want others to see"

[-] authed@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

send me a naked picture of yourself might work

[-] Metal_Zealot@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago

You unfortunately can't teach something like this to someone who doesn't even understand the consequences of it. Or care. Leading a horse to water n all that.

[-] splendoruranium@infosec.pub 3 points 1 year ago

You unfortunately can’t teach something like this to someone who doesn’t even understand the consequences of it. Or care.

You can absolutely explain it and teach it and make people care. It's just not easy. I've only ever encountered uninformed "I have nothing to hide"-responses to equally lackluster throwaway explanations . It's a very difficult and abstract topic, it doesn't come naturally! Don't treat privacy concerns as equivalent to pointing out dirt on someone's clothes, treat it like calculus. Successfully conveying it requires time, conversation and didactics.

[-] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago

Show them the John Oliver Ed Snowden interview where he says the government has people looking at your sexts

[-] InputZero@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I imagine that for a very small minority of the population, that's actually their kink. Writing sexually explicit and politically suspect text messages in order to force some unwitting federal employee to participate in some deranged message-au-trois. The world is filled with all kinds of people.

[-] davel@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago
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this post was submitted on 13 Nov 2023
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