Resident Evil 5.

Sheva is a badass.

Skullgirls!

Played Sakuna: Of Rice and Ruin recently

fantastic game. The platforming is fun with surprising depth. The Rice mechanics have way more depth than I can stand, but it's still forgiving enough that you never feel severely punished for messing up.

Ms. Pac-Man https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ms._Pac-Man

Echo

The only game that comes to my mind now that hasn't been mentioned yet, would be Tchia. Very sweet game.

Passing By (I think Curly is technically gender-neutral but I always saw her as a girl).

I think the download files got taken down though unfortunately

Edit: Apparantly they've been canonically made non-binary

Pokemon, anything equal or newer than crystal.

mirrors edge

The tomb raider Trilogie

I enjoyed the chill, stylized vibes in Sable. Coming of age, botw-inspired exploration, beautiful world. No (?)Combat—I don’t remember fully, but very little at least. Just explore, experiment, and engage the world around you. A passable world-build/story too!

Play Sea of Thieves as a female.

Extremely retro, but currently available on the Mac App Store: Mess O' Trouble. It was a WorldBuilder game--think Infocom, but with static pictures you could interact with. I believe your choice of Daredevil Dawn or Fearless Frank had some impact on the gameplay if you got far enough, but child me never did.

If you're into farming and dungeon delving, Rune Factory 4 has a female protagonist option.