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[-] Zugyuk@lemmy.world 66 points 11 months ago

You can be the change you want to see. Tell them they're being creeps, and don't white knight

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 60 points 11 months ago

I think in a lot of people's books you'd be white knighting just by doing that.

[-] Zugyuk@lemmy.world 17 points 11 months ago

I see what you mean, but I think that the lack of follow-up, or call for attention to yourself puts it in a different category.

[-] Ilflish@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago

The solution is for everyone else to act like school kids and treat the guy like he has a crush and make fun of him. No one likes to be told they're sitting in a tree.

[-] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

That sounds tiring.

[-] Knitwear@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Probably only by people who don't want the status quo to change

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 5 points 11 months ago

Sorry girl, but we're all dudes in here so you're kind of a creep for hanging out.

( I know what you meant :P )

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[-] rjthyen@lemm.ee 44 points 11 months ago

But it's actually a 7 year old boy....

[-] Aux@lemmy.world 22 points 11 months ago

Mr Epstein is getting his jet ready!

[-] v4ld1z@lemmy.zip 29 points 11 months ago

FPSs are especially bad

[-] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip 27 points 11 months ago

Girl in my competitive TF2 lobby? Vote kick (for scamming)

[-] uis@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago

Intruder alert, girl in the lobby playing Pyro.

[-] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 21 points 11 months ago

I used a voice modulator before I found my clan.

[-] Otherwise_Direction7 14 points 11 months ago

Man, a original take of that one Terminator meme template? Now that’s interesting…

[-] Mago@lemmy.world 13 points 11 months ago

Last couple times i played with a woman no one was disrespectful which surpriced me greatly.

Tbf the Squad community is pretty cool.

[-] Drinvictus@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 11 months ago

I don't think Dota 2 is like this. At least not in NA. People just want mmr. They don't give a shit about your gender lol

[-] NIB@lemmy.world 22 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I wanna believe things are getting better. I have had women speak in my dota games a few times recently and havent seen anything weird. Though to be fair, the average age of dota player is pretty high. so maybe this is why.

[-] Drinvictus@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 11 months ago

I think this is the main reason. Without googling anything I'd say the average age of a dota 2 player is at least 19 (if not more) compared to 14-15 for other games.

[-] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 11 months ago

I haven't played for a couple years but from what I remember out of thousands of hours playing I only heard a woman speak a small handful of times, it was always very surprising

[-] Drinvictus@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 11 months ago

Oh I'm not saying a female player is common, all I'm saying is that people don't treat them poorly. I have played with a girlfriend a couple of years ago and we had zero poor interactions. There are toxic people but they are toxic towards everyone. Nothing specific to female players.

[-] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 11 months ago

Yeah, I guess I just strongly suspect that most women avoid using voice chat if they play

[-] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 6 points 11 months ago

DOTA 2 gave me a Stalker on Steam. Also a lot of inappropriate comments and insults. You also get automatically blamed more. I only play with friends now.

[-] qooqie@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

Yup I’ve had the same experience with Dota 2. I can’t speak for the super low behavior score crowd, but on the high end everyone’s pretty chill.

[-] ClockNimble@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago

I've found having trained a deeper man voice helps deflect pretty hard.

[-] diffcalculus@lemmy.world 20 points 11 months ago

Ok, Elizabeth Holmes

[-] platypus_plumba@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

There are voice modulators that make women sound like males. That'd be easier.

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[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 8 points 11 months ago

Shit, my steam name was The Cool Side of the Pillow for over a decade and I didn't even have to talk for people to assume I was a girl, for some reason.

[-] nifty@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

I can’t believe it’s still a thing! I remember when Anita Sarkeesian was more in the news.

[-] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 2 points 11 months ago
[-] MilitantAtheist@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

They look like the Mellor shapeshifters from the Fringeworthy rpg.

[-] Dvixen@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

So true. I've had to leave games/communities I absolutely love because of the male gamers that can't act with a modicum of adult, and the majority of others won't call them out on that behaviour.

Props to the communities that do welcome and treat us gals as fellow gamers.

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