In the dance of life's sweet song, Do what makes your heart beat strong. Chase the moments, find your glee, Let your spirit wander free.

Smile more often, bright and wide, In the little joys, confide. Love yourself just as you are, You’re a shining, splendid star.

Confidence in self you'll find, Brings a peace of heart and mind. Then one day, when least you see, Love will come, a sweet surprise to be.

With your mate, those joys will grow, Every smile, a brighter glow. Tiny treasures, once so small, Now with them, you cherish all.

Hand in hand, your hearts will soar, Love yourself and them even more. Life’s a tale of joy and cheer, Happily ever after, year by year.

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As an answer to your question OP - Once I met my mate, I felt bad for treating myself so badly all those years before it.