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[-] kerrypacker@lemmy.world 0 points 1 hour ago
[-] Zeppo@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

So you think the Oklahoma town canceled their football for… ?

[-] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 14 points 9 hours ago

My high school from a red state was like 99% white and also 99% conservative and had this attitude of racism is bad but also racism doesn't exist anymore then proceeds to make racist jokes and support racist politics (including students who were very academically focused), although it never evolved to anything as stupid as taking a group photo holding up a racial slur. There was a lot of stuff from there though that seemed normal at the time then after I left realized how fucked it was, and I know of other people who think the same thing.

[-] nobleshift@lemmy.world 21 points 10 hours ago

I just do not understand how anyone involved thought this was a good idea.

[-] Red_October@lemmy.world 9 points 4 hours ago

Oh I absolutely see how it happened. It's rooted in that love of "Technically correct." I can absolutely see one of them saying "All I did was have a picture of a scrabble tile with the letter G on it. Is having a single scrabble tile illegal? You can't simply keep us from associating with each other, the first amendment protects the right to peaceably assemble!" All the while they know very obviously what they did, it's just that they thought they could technically get away with it. They figured that if no one of them openly used the whole word, they couldn't possibly face any consequences.

[-] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 hours ago

Surely you were a dumb high school student at one point, no?

[-] nobleshift@lemmy.world 11 points 8 hours ago

Not this level of "putting a needle in your arm" dumb. We did stupid shit like Jackass, not hateful shit.

[-] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works -1 points 4 hours ago

Not sure thats a great example if you meant to show difference. Maybe you did jackass-lite?

[-] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 10 points 9 hours ago

I was definitely a dumb high school student. At no point did I think it was ever ok to use the n-word though.

[-] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 10 points 9 hours ago

Sure, but did you grow up in a community with a healthy population of minorities? If not, then you probably don't really have the same experience as these kids.

When you don't actually know anyone a slur references, it's pretty easy to not take it seriously. A lot of my friends in school make "gay" jokes, until we made friends with a gay kid, at which point we stopped because we suddenly had a personal experience with it. That's how a lot of these types of things go.

[-] CleoTheWizard@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago

Yes but also racism and homophobia deserve derision and to be laughed and joked about in ways that don’t hurt people. Hear me out. It’s a weird situation because the people who are offended by it deserve to be and are valid but so are the people that say stuff like “telling people that you can’t say that word gives it power” because it absolutely does.

It’s why myself and my gay partner will jokingly use slurs in private. Because it’s funny and we’re mocking the people that hate us. And by using their words as a joke, we take the sting out of them. Because it’s absurd theyre used seriously in the first place.

So we exist in this weird spot where we’ve said “yes the gays can reclaim their slurs. And yes the minorities can reclaim their words. But no one else can say them” and it’s like sure but then other people aren’t able to properly take the sting out of the words.

Not saying there’s a right answer, I’m just saying that we have weird standards that may not be serving our goals.

[-] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 hours ago

If your goal is to make yourself and your partner feel better than I think that makes sense. The other poster is talking about how to effect change in people like those in this picture though, which requires a different approach.

[-] CleoTheWizard@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

That’s sort of what I was getting at. Obviously we shouldn’t be using those words in public if they’re going to hurt people, but it almost seems like we’ve regressed and given slurs more power by not saying them as jokes like I do at home occasionally. Specifically the word in the photo is a huge no no and for good reason but it’s power isn’t decaying is the point.

So the question I’m poking at is: how do you get rid of the power of slurs without offending people? It seems impossible because I almost think that as a community we should all be able to share in reclaiming language to some extent. Otherwise it can divide us.

Last thing, the word here in this photo is something that is often fine for black people to say but not others. Again I get why. But doesn’t that inherently enforce a divide? Like sorry I actually cannot share in your reclamation culture because I am racially barred from doing so. From my perspective (which could be wrong) I’d rather let people and friends outside my community use those words with me in a casual and inoffensive manner than dividing us by enforcing language rules against them. Just a thought.

[-] JameUwU@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 hours ago

Im not condoning it but you were probably born post Xbox 360 Xbox live era.

[-] apt8@sh.itjust.works 1 points 9 hours ago
[-] apt8@sh.itjust.works 1 points 9 hours ago

I couldn’t imagine doing this though. I’m imagining they somehow expected social benefit for this, and that blows me mind SpongeBob

[-] Mobiledecay@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

This was just an advertisement for Xbox Live that's all. 🤷

[-] Case@lemmynsfw.com 23 points 16 hours ago

As a Texan, in a purple area, this doesn't surprise me from Oklahoma.

I had the displeasure of driving through OK to get to my late father in law's hospital bed before he passed.

I ended up blowing through a toll entry because they didn't accept paper money or cards. Just coins. I went to the little building to try to pay my way, and it appeared to be abandoned.

Mother fuckers, I can buy a legal variant of weed with my fucking watch. Coins? Join this century please.

[-] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 3 points 10 hours ago

There's a few states that I just can't even.

Idaho for example.

[-] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago
[-] Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world 38 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

Imagine this photo popping up whenever any one of these idiots tries to get a job.

That long haired kid looks like he means it the most

[-] BigBenis@lemmy.world 15 points 16 hours ago

Not to defend racists or imply this is acceptable in any way but everybody does stupid shit when they're a teenager and something like this shouldn't haunt them for the rest of their working lives provided they mature into well-adjusted adults.

The bigger problem is the poorly-adjusted adults in the communities that raise these kids and teach them to be hateful towards people with harmless differences.

[-] abbadon420@lemm.ee 10 points 16 hours ago

The letters they are holding were provided by the school for some kind of event. It seems like these kids thought they could be funny by spelling out a no no word. To any rational thinking human, this isn't funny, but teenagers aren't rational think humans. That's pretty much the definition of puberty.

But it's 2024 and kids post everything online, so now it's gone viral and everyone judges them as racist scum that deserve to never get a job in their lives. Off of a single photo.

[-] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 hours ago

I agree mostly, but I keep getting stuck on them posing for the picture.

[-] ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago

That long haired kid looks like he means it the most

You mean the kid with dreadlocks? Lol

[-] Glytch@lemmy.world 16 points 16 hours ago

The punishment fit the crime. Let the picture follow them forever and let their fellow students take out the frustration of losing homecoming on them.

[-] dubious@lemmy.world 16 points 19 hours ago

oklahoma. drop it into a blender and start over.

[-] niktemadur@lemmy.world 102 points 1 day ago

Oklahoma the prototypical red state shithole.

Where if the black community becomes peacefully prosperous, it's too much for the numerous white inferiority-complex shitkickers to take, they boil and fester like an infection until one night they swarm like a biblical plague of locusts to burn and raze the black community to the ground.

Hollow and ignorant, lazy and angry white madness is synonymous with republican-voting states.

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[-] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 13 points 19 hours ago

Because they want to normalize the use of racial slurs yet again, separating it from "real racism".

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