That doesn't change anything. The reality is the issue at hand. Is there is a double Standard? Is it very prevalent through out our culture? should it be changed? These are the issues.

Far too often people take any form of feminism to be all encompassing of the most extreme views they've heard, or even that others have claimed without reason. Feminism isn't oppositional to men, it's not even blaming men, just like toxic masculinity isn't about ''men bad'' because it includes problem like ''men are conditioned to repress their emotions which is harmful to men'' and ''men being drafted and not women perpetuates a view that men are disposable, this is a really negative view that's deeply harmful to men''

It's not about who's to blame, who is the enforcer, where did it begin. And not every privilege is a insult to the group that has it. Women do have privileges as well, they are less likely to be suspected of child sexual abuse in professions with children, They receive far less prison time for convictions, they get favored in family court rulings. This doesn't negate all Feminism, nor does it disparage women, these are very borad social realities, that are difficult to change. There are Feminists who have advocates to include women in the draft, there are women who have tried to put forth changes in child rearing to reduce the chance a boy will grow up to be emotionally repressed. It's not about who is to blame, it's about seeing a double standard and working on it.

girls cant wear the same dress twice

$5 says she's typing this out in yoga pants.

I would honestly love to own multiple suits, but ultimately as someone that works in tech the only times I ever get to wear a suit is a wedding or a funeral. All my friends are married, so that basically leaves a black/dark suit for weddings.