I wish everyone a good try, and for you to know that that was a good try.

You are good & valid without fitting the norm.

I'm proud of you for trying. Sometimes it's just really hard.

sometimes im frustrated at peoples understanding of effort. idk like if people see someone struggling with something because they are stupid but they have motivation they see that as really trying and they think that worthy of praise but if they see someone getting similar results in the end but struggling with motivation rather than something else they think that person is just lazy and isnt trying.

just something i have noticed and which annoys me.

im trying to try.

Joke is on you, I don't have a proper container for my laundry...