No, even on Reddit I wasn’t trying to let IRL people know that I was on Reddit. I don’t want them figuring out my username and seeing any of my comments. Not because I’m like ashamed or anything, but because I enjoy the freedom of not “having an audience”. I write differently if I know that potentially people I know IRL are reading it vs whoever the hell you people are. Anonymity is freedom.

No and no.

I'm over 40 and nobody cares.

No, they're not. I'm fine with it really. I enjoy following communities and not people, so not a big loss.

I've gotten two friends to drop Reddit and ride the Lemmy train. Great success!

No, but almost none of my friends were on Reddit either.

no and i'd struggle to recommend it. it seems to be mostly talking about being on the fediverse and hating other social media.. hopefully we'll get to a point where there's more discussion outside of just being here and why.

Ideally we would want people to switch because they want to, not because their preferred one died imo.

The only way I can see convincing the average person would be if we have a thriving community and content.

I've given up. My friends are all brain-stuck on faceblerk, even though they all claim to hate not even one will consider changing. I just abandoned them there and talk to them on the - gasp - phone once in a while.

It's the goddamn internets. Change is all it is. I don't get the big deal. Just fkm move.

Wait, you guys have friends?

Not yet, and to be honest, part of me is a little glad that Threads is going to be joining the Fediverse, because at least now I'll be able to interact with people I know again, without having to actually use or directly interact with Meta. They're going to scrape all my Fediverse data, anyway; I may as well be able to follow the people who actually matter to me, in return.

My boyfriend joined, but he‘s only using it a little bit and mostly still on Reddit. Though maybe me sending all my memes and stuff from here will eventually get him to come here more.

The rest, no, they are the types to use TikTok, Twitter and Instagram, they just want to follow a few influencers/famous people, theres no content for that on here and probably for the best anyway. When I want to write to them I use Signal.

I kinda like the tech enthusiast vibes on here and would like it to stay fairly small, though maybe it will grow eventually to the size of Reddit.

Friends?

I've successfully gotten a single coworker to join Lemmy. Most of the others barely even know what Reddit is. My family also very rarely uses social media other than YouTube, and there simply is not enough content on PeerTube for them to be convinced to switch.

Most of my friends jumped off Reddit and onto Kbin/Lemmy for the week of the blackout. I think most of them are using some hybrid of Lemmy/Reddit now. I'm the only person I know that moved exclusively to Kbin, but that's okay. It fills the same hole that reddit did, I don't much care if other people I know do or do not join tbh

The hardest part is the interactive, especially coming from say for example Reddit where you'd realistically have hundreds of comments on every thread. The overall quality was pretty average but it was nice to see that volume

No and no.

I tried to get my fiance to move over but I think there's just not enough content to sate her. which I totally get.

Everyone I socialize with IRL is a normie for the most part. There's no way I'm going to be able to sell them on the fediverse. People want convenience and to be where everyone else is at.

Hell, the only reason I still have a fb account is because my family refuses to try another chat app other than messenger.

I'm leaving the centralized internet behind but I'm also a very online hipster. It is what it is. If the fediverse ends up being a smaller place then so be it.

I've mentioned it to a couple friends, especially when they complained about losing their favorite subreddits and comments being deleted, but as far as I know they haven't moved over. I'm not pushy or anything about it though, I just casually drop it in conversation, like "oh I was on kbin today and saw this thing, blah blah blah..."
That being said, we don't follow each other on other types of social media/forums, so why would we here? They'll keep doing whatever they're doing, and I'll be happy here.

Nope but they’ll at least open kbin links when I send them memes…

I've managed to tell one of my sisters about the Reddit debacle and suggested she visit kbin if she's in the mood for a Reddit-like. That said, she rarely used Reddit in the first place and would at best occasionally go look into a memes or cat pics community without logging in if she used the fediverse.

Also, no way I'm telling anyone I know IRL what my fediverse username is.

I have several friends on the Fediverse and several more (by orders of magnitude) not. I've recruited some who I thought would appreciate it and left the others where they're happy.

no and I've been pointing towards it whenever they mention threads

My friends are using threads. gags

I've recommended it to my friends, but they've instead chosen to take the fall of Reddit as an opportunity to just... step back from the internet. One friend just... isn't browsing Reddit at all on mobile anymore, and is instead just using old.reddit.com on desktop, and culled most of the subs he used to follow, keeping only some small communities.

I respect it, but still feel something like Reddit has a place in my life, but have no faith whatsoever in Reddit itself, and the apps are better here, so I'm completely switched over. I imagine they may still move here in time. Lemmy is a part of my life now, so I'll continue to mention it and share links to things from it, but I've no desire to force the issue.

I’m here for the shitposts, and I mean that sincerely. I’m not interested in knowing anyone or having anyone I know be here. Most of the normal content that gets upvoted is back slapping about not being elsewhere.

My friends couldn't even figure out Reddit. Most are on discord and that's pretty much it.

Mine aren't, but the ones I would want on lemmy I already chat with on a group message. We send each other memes from wherever on that app.