Lucky for me my parents were both "I didn't save anything for retirement, my kids will take care of me when I'm older", so I don't have to suffer through this.
My boomer dad: you probably won't get anything because I'm paying [i.e. using my retirement] to take care of my [100 year old] mother
Me: that's understandable
I know poor and wealthy people in every generation. Why aren't we blaming the banks for the 08 crash, the politicians for taking away almost every social service and trying to take away more, and the psychopath CEOs who care about their dick measuring contests every quarter? This generational divide obscures the real issues.
Isn't that better anyway? Inheritance makes the world less fair, as children of rich parents will get a huge advantage. If that money is instead spent, it hopefully distributes over society again instead if staying in the rich families.
It's obviously not that black and white, getting some money is a great help to you get people. And obviously a parent will want to help their children, that's totally fair. But as a larger trend it doesn't seem like a bad thing to me.
"We aren't gonna give you any inheritance"
"I'm not gonna give 2 fcks about you when you become too old to care for yourselves"
I'm not saying that my family's like this but sounds fair to me...
My dad just died destitute and my mother will probably have nothing when she passes. I’m ok with that, I am my own person. People complaining about losing out on inheritance are fucking spoiled brats. “ you spent the money you worked for? Boo hoo hoo, I wanted your money though “
Lol I had this convo with my parents, I told them it's their money and I don't expect to get anything.
Oh this is me. Their house is packed and they keep buying more shit and going on international cruises. We’ll get nothing.
And that bothers you? Do you only care about money?
Related Twilight Zone clip: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMGJLZDLpUg
Honestly, I'm young, and I know older people that would spend it better than their failkids.
That's not everyone, of course, but maybe instead of blaming people born at a slightly different time we should focus on being mad that there's no non-hereditary path to wealth in the first place.
My grandparents from one side of the family left me nothing, and the other side left two weeks rent. I know the direct descendants come first but at least give the grandkids 15% or something, it would have helped so much. We're all working twice as hard to afford half the lifestyle our parents had
Ahh yes, the genereation widely know for being obnoxiously entitled, making obnoxiously entitled memes.
Which generation and memes do you refer to?
Apparently said generation is also stupid.
Oh, I see, you misunderstood here. I was doing this old school traditional thing called "social graces", which evidently you're unaware of. It's so people can save face, among other things. I was using a tactical social maneuver called "giving you the benefit of the doubt" and "giving you an out", so that you could make yourself look like less the fool.
Since you're clearly uneducated on social graces, you failed to "read the room" and what you posted could be interpreted as insulting most of the people commenting, but was vague enough to be about other people.
So I gave you the opportunity to explain yourself in a polite way, and now you've thrown it back into my face with an insult.
I had no idea I was talking to the societal equivalent of an angsty slug, but that's what the benefit of the doubt is for.
You sad, lonely thing you.
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